Margaret Josephs Defends Melissa Gorga, Says She’s “Very Disappointed” in Kathy Wakile Over Lunch Drama

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In the ever-turbulent world of The Real Housewives of New Jersey, loyalty counts for everything — and Margaret Josephs is showing exactly where hers lies. After Kathy Wakile publicly questioned Melissa Gorga’s timeline and intentions around a long-overdue family reconciliation, Josephs isn’t staying quiet — and she’s making it clear she’s “very disappointed” in Wakile.

Margaret Josephs and Melissa Gorga smile during interviews with Bravo
Margaret Josephs and Melissa Gorga

Appearing on Page Six Radio, Margaret Josephs made it clear she was aware of the private lunch between Gorga and Wakile and defended Gorga’s silence. “I did know about that lunch,” Josephs said. “Melissa had told me, and Kathy told me because we go to the same hairdresser.”

The RHONJ star insisted Gorga wasn’t hiding anything for personal gain, but rather honoring a family request. “Melissa said to me, ‘Don’t tell anybody; Kathy asked me not to say anything,’” Josephs explained. “She was not going to use it for clout or to make a story about it.”

Margaret Josephs Defends Melissa Gorga, Says She’s “Very Disappointed” in Kathy Wakile Over Lunch Drama
Margaret Josephs Defends Melissa Gorga, Says She’s “Very Disappointed” in Kathy Wakile Over Lunch Drama

Instead, she characterized Melissa’s discretion as thoughtful, saying, “She was keeping silent because she was asked to keep silent” and that she was “respecting family boundaries.”

Josephs made it clear she was disappointed in how Wakile later spoke about the encounter publicly. “I don’t know why Kathy said that,” she said, adding, “I felt badly because I know Melissa was being kind by concealing the meet-up.” Josephs didn’t hold back, ultimately calling Wakile’s public criticism “very disappointing.”

The controversy stems from a July 2024 appearance Gorga made on Jeff Lewis Live, where she shared that Wakile and her husband, Rich, were building a house across the street from the Gorgas in Franklin Lakes. Melissa told Lewis she fantasized about her husband Joe running into his cousin and making amends — prompting Lewis to suggest she should take the first step. “I’m gonna do it,” Gorga said.

But Wakile quickly clapped back in her own Page Six Radio appearance, saying the comments were “strange” because the meeting had already happened. “We had already met and cleared the air,” she said. She took further issue with how Gorga portrayed the conversation, adding, “She made it seem like it was Jeff’s idea.”

When asked whether Gorga was motivated by potential storylines, Wakile didn’t mince words. “I think that could’ve been a really good part of it,” she said. “Could’ve been, like, potential storyline, but I’m not a storyline. I am my own life.”

It’s just the latest chapter in the ever-complicated Gorga-Wakile family saga — and with RHONJ’s cameras always rolling, don’t expect it to be the last.

36 comments

BC May 1, 2025 - 8:26 pm

Team Melissa and Marge. Kathy is thirsty, Teresa is a felon – bye ladies. Marge is right, Kathy is disappointing on all levels.

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OchoCinco May 1, 2025 - 9:24 pm

Me thinks Kathy is jealous, because Melissa sprinkle cookie and cake line is doing awesome.

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michers May 1, 2025 - 6:18 pm

…. And since when does MeHo respect family boundaries ??? F off Marge . Do you hear yourself ? You don’t even respect any boundaries !

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sbud May 1, 2025 - 6:03 pm

Melissa friends and joes family are dropping like flies. I'm indifferent to both these two. They try to hard. Leave everyone alone

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michers May 1, 2025 - 4:23 pm

Girl stop . You know nothing except for Whorga stories . Worry about your own messes and family

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 1, 2025 - 2:27 pm

In a recent interview, I sensed a finality in her tone; as if she's accepting the fact that the RHONJ ride is over (for them). She was reminiscing how Joey (now 14) was only 2 months old when they joined the crashed Teresa's show, and then started talking about how "everything ends" blah blah blah. Today, I'm thinking that Teresa and Delores are the only two coming back, but of course that could change tomorrow.

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Zap It May 1, 2025 - 3:59 pm

Hope so?

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BC May 1, 2025 - 8:22 pm

It's not, and never was, "Teresa's show". And I doubt Teresa will be back until she clears up the small matter of the $3M owed to the IRS and potential further jail time. End of story.

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 1, 2025 - 9:55 pm

Slight correction: Louie owes $2.6M and Teresa is the arears for $300K (which I believe is the remainder of her original judgement). But regardless, I think that's all the more reason she will be back. Andy has a soft spot for Teresa.

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BC May 1, 2025 - 10:04 pm

They are married with no pre-nup. She’s liable for the whole amount, which was probably his plan all along. Also, Andy and Bravo have said she is suspended from all Bravo projects until the matter with the IRS is resolved..

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 1, 2025 - 10:08 pm

Did you see/hear Andy say that or are you reading a report?

BC May 1, 2025 - 10:36 pm

There are several reports out in the last week.

OchoCinco May 2, 2025 - 7:51 am

She won't be responsible for all of the amount, but she will be responsible for at least half because of not having a prenup.

OchoCinco May 2, 2025 - 7:49 am

Theresa also has an active lien for 500K from 2023, not to mention the over 600K she still owes to the federal government.

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Ginger Snap May 2, 2025 - 12:55 pm

Andy doesn’t. He thinks she’s an idiot. Especially after her refusing a prenup and Gia backing her up.

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 2, 2025 - 3:25 pm

Yes, Andy has an opinion, but he’s been fiercely protective of the Giudices. Him thinking she’s an idiot is pure speculation. As they say in court … “Your honor, I object … the witness can provide no evidence of the defendant’s state of mind”.

OchoCinco May 1, 2025 - 9:25 pm

Teresa also still owes the federal government over $600,000 in federal taxes. I'm sure the amount is higher now due to penalties and interest.

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holy cannoli May 1, 2025 - 12:02 pm

Once again Marge the Mouth has to freakin insert herself in something that’s none of her damn business..,just STFU !

My opinion it was / is Melissa’s business to clear up whatever this nonsense is, and I do believe it’s nonsense. Seriously who freakin cares ? The whole thing is stupid !

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Zap It May 1, 2025 - 3:59 pm

?"Marge the Mouth"?? Good one.

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michers May 1, 2025 - 4:24 pm

Trout mouth …

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michers May 1, 2025 - 4:24 pm

Yesss sing it Holy !!!

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Zap It May 1, 2025 - 3:58 pm

"Marge the Mouth"?? Good one.

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Evil Queen May 1, 2025 - 9:47 am

Having the same hairdresser does not equate to knowing someone on an intimate level.
Kathy having some reservations about Melissa or her true intentions does not make it disappointing.
It’s an honest response.

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Zap It May 1, 2025 - 9:36 am

Margaret Josephs is a vicious gossip and she's STILL stirring the pot. I love when she says she's "disappointed".?? Too bad Melissa is still hanging out with her instead of fixing the damage she caused in her husband's family. But they deserve each other and not a Kathy fan but good for her for calling out Melissa's bullshit. ??

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michers May 1, 2025 - 4:23 pm

Amen

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 1, 2025 - 2:52 pm

I think Margaret made a fatal mistake by hitching her horse to the wrong post, because if Melissa is indeed out, then it only stands to reason, that so is she.

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Zap It May 1, 2025 - 3:56 pm

I think she should be out even if Melissa stays…and then Melissa will drop her like a hot potato and Margaret will start spilling the tea on Melissa. ?

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michers May 1, 2025 - 4:23 pm

So true lol

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 2, 2025 - 3:34 pm

Yes, there seems to be no limit to Margaret’s wrath.

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Ginger Snap May 2, 2025 - 12:59 pm

NJ isn’t coming back with this cast. Bravo has other cities in the works and advertising in NJ seeking a new cast. Tre doesn’t play well with others.

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AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark May 2, 2025 - 3:16 pm

I certainly agree that Teresa is not an easy to get along with, but who’s to say what’s real and what isn’t? I think it’s too early to say with certainty that no one is returning. Also, they’ve always had other cities in development in one stage or the other (that never see the light of day). Finally, I think Bravo puts out these little tidbits about casting just to keep their bitches in line.

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NikkiJax May 1, 2025 - 9:33 am

Kathy is thirsty as hell

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BC May 1, 2025 - 8:25 pm

100%

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RyNy83 May 1, 2025 - 8:24 am

I agree with Marge.

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BC May 1, 2025 - 8:25 pm

So do I. Team Melissa and Marge

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OchoCinco May 1, 2025 - 9:25 pm

Same

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