The Real Housewives of New Jersey keep trying to tell us that they’re all in “a good place” and God bless them for being good employees and doing what Bravo is asking them to.

While season five airs, the women are re-living rougher times in their relationships with each other, primarily the family drama between Teresa and her sister-in-law and cousin. Kathy Wakile reveals to E! Online, “It took a lot of work, but Teresa and I are finally in a comfortable place.”

Kathy adds, “We’re speaking. We can have a nice conversation.” But what can ruffle the women back up to drama is the show they’re on!

“It’s hard watching the episodes now because we’re not in that place anymore,” Kathy admits to E!. “So what she keeps putting in her blog is very strange to me. When I read some of the things she’s writing, all I can say is, she’s really kicking the hornet’s nest.”

Despite this, Kathy hopes that the relationship stays positive and drama-free. “I know I don’t want to go back to that dark place. I just hope she feels the same,” explains Kathy.

First of all, a reality show is probably not the greatest thing to do with family you are struggling to get along with because it does a great job with bringing up past darkness. Real Housewives, no less, fuels itself off of that. But I guess a cannoli kit won’t sell itself, right?

Kathy should also read Melissa’s first blog of the season where she came out with guns blaring even though she also is in a good place with Teresa, supposedly.

Do you think the “good place” stuff we are being fed will remain by the time the reunion films? Will reliving all the drama and being exposed to new things being said re-open wounds?