Drew Sidora’s divorce from Ralph Pittman is taking a dramatic turn — with newly revealed texts painting a tense picture of their financial and personal fallout.
According to court filings obtained by TMZ, Drew is asking a judge to reconsider an order requiring her to vacate their home, claiming she may be left without stable housing. As part of her plea, she submitted alleged text messages between her and Ralph that detail their ongoing disputes over money and responsibilities.
“I most definitely cannot afford 9K of household expenses at this time,” Drew wrote in one message, before asking, “Are you going to pay for half of the groceries as well as half of the kids’ expenses for the month?”
Ralph pushed back, replying, “I believe this is very generous as you haven’t contributed anything towards the home for a number of years,” and warning, “If you don’t pay, you will be in contempt.”
Drew strongly disputed that claim, firing back with her own allegations.
“Ralph, how can you say I haven’t given you money toward the house in years? I’ve given you 50% of my money for Real Housewives and all along you were getting paid directly from Bravo as well! I gave you 50% of my endorsement deals … and my movies. Let’s talk about how you took $300,000 out of my money I received personally on my personal injury settlement.”
She also questioned why their mortgage was reportedly behind, claiming they were $25,000 in arrears — something Ralph denied, responding, “You’re making stuff up again so I won’t entertain.”
The exchange quickly turned more personal, with both sides trading harsh accusations.
“You have done the ultimate betrayal and tried to destroy me as their mom, defame my character, career, brand and me as a human being time and time again,” Drew wrote, urging him to focus on their children.
Ralph, however, dismissed her claims and escalated the argument.
“You’re a terrible person, and I pray you work on your spirit… Don’t try and act like u want to be a mom now. It’s too late.”
The back-and-forth continued with both making deeply personal jabs, highlighting just how fractured their relationship has become.
The situation comes as Drew faces the possibility of having to leave her home, adding even more pressure to an already contentious split. With financial accusations, custody tensions, and emotional exchanges now part of the record, it’s clear this divorce is far from resolved.