Tamra Judge Denies Affair Allegations & Accuses Gretchen Rossi of Homophobia

The Real Housewives of Orange County is no stranger to drama, but the latest feud between Tamra Judge and Gretchen Rossi seems to go beyond the usual televised squabbles. In a recent episode, Gretchen alleged that Tamra had a past affair with a mystery singer, and the fallout has taken the drama off-screen and onto social media, where Tamra is making bold denials and deflections.

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During the episode, Gretchen claimed that years ago Tamra had pursued a music career and, in that context, engaged in an affair with an unnamed singer. Gretchen even brought her longtime partner Slade Smiley into the conversation, saying, “Slade has an audio recording” tied to the situation. Slade then appeared on speakerphone and confirmed the story, though no actual evidence was aired.

Tamra Judge quickly took to Instagram to counter the claim, stating, “I did not sleep with a ‘boy band singer’ ever in my life! It’s a complete lie!” She added that she wouldn’t name the person in question, citing respect for his family: “I will not say his name out of respect for his family. I’m friends with his wife and they are both disgusted by Gretchen & Slade’s false accusations.”

While Judge positioned herself as the target of fabricated gossip, she didn’t hold back from launching accusations of her own. In the same Instagram response, she said flatly, “I think Gretchen has proven to be a liar. More to come next week.”

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But Tamra didn’t stop there.

One follower asked her to “expose Gretchen’s IG likes of homophobia.” Tamra responded with, “I think that is a well known fact. It’s been all over social media for the past two years. It’s really gross. I’m sure I’ll get blamed for that too.”

This critique might come off stronger if Tamra herself hadn’t been previously entangled in similar controversies. Several years ago, her son Ryan Vieth posted a image on transgender child, calling gender transition “abusive brainwashing.” The caption read: “LET’S BE F—KING REAL, THE WORLD IS F—KED. COMPLETELY F—KED. The only thing that kid should be transitioning into is being a 6-year-old. Anything else is abusive brainwashing.” Tamra reportedly “liked” the post at the time, though she later distanced herself from the sentiment and apologized for his actions.

Whether there’s truth to Gretchen’s claims remains to be seen, but Tamra’s counterattacks raise just as many questions as they answer.


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14 comments

Steve September 23, 2025 - 3:22 pm
Of course Tamra had an affair. Undoubtedly more than one. She clearly has no moral compass so why should her marriage vows limit her need for self-gratification. After all, Her conversion to born again Christian didn't limit her vileness and nastiness.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 22, 2025 - 3:02 pm
Whenever these trigger-button issues come up, I always think of Kelly Dodd who still proclaims that in real life, that the rat that scurries Tamra (and Eddie) are as politically Conservative as everyone else in Orange County.
Good Hair September 22, 2025 - 3:09 pm
I think like 80% of HW are republicans. Lol. I also don't look to celebrities or a Housewife for their political opinions ??
Good Hair September 22, 2025 - 3:09 pm
I think like 80% of HW are republicans. Lol. I also don't look to celebrities or a Housewife for their political opinions ??
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 22, 2025 - 6:24 pm
Smart celebrities know that alienating HALF (or more) of the country just makes bad business sense, and sometimes it's career suicide. But then again, no one ever accused a Lib or being smart.
PjC September 22, 2025 - 1:40 pm
Monkey is going ape throwing Sh** everywhere to see what sticks/stinks. I want to hear the soundtrack (lol) Roll tape!
michers September 22, 2025 - 6:19 pm
SAME!!! Let’s hear it
Good Hair September 22, 2025 - 9:29 am
As a gay guy...you aren't anti-trans if you think kids shouldn't transition until they are GROWN adults. Anything else is crazy. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/397b1122ec6032163a1cfb3d9571c915de00abd2c1f92622d0973fe8d116e462.gif
book7175 September 22, 2025 - 10:42 am
Trashy needs to shut up. There are a lot of things I don't like about Gretchen but didn't Trashy accuse Gretchen of cheating on Jeff with some guy? Trashy has always been jealous of Gretchen, and any woman who is younger and good looking. She has thrown out a lot of accusations against cast members, and been sued and lost, so what goes around, comes around.
book7175 September 22, 2025 - 10:42 am
Trashy needs to shut up. There are a lot of things I don't like about Gretchen but didn't Trashy accuse Gretchen of cheating on Jeff with some guy? Trashy has always been jealous of Gretchen, and any woman who is younger and good looking. She has thrown out a lot of accusations against cast members, and been sued and lost, so what goes around, comes around.
Champagne Hangover September 22, 2025 - 8:46 am
Mmm H’mm… exchanging good for evil just as scripture prophesied. ? I’ll leave it that except to say Ryan was ? spot on in what he said. Period. End of. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e334acbb2dca90e231fc6faaf30b034880639a135e97af1bccc92b24ab159c68.gif
Champagne Hangover September 22, 2025 - 8:46 am
Mmm H’mm… exchanging good for evil just as scripture prophesied. ? I’ll leave it that except to say Ryan was ? spot on in what he said. Period. End of. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/e334acbb2dca90e231fc6faaf30b034880639a135e97af1bccc92b24ab159c68.gif
Zap It September 22, 2025 - 11:05 am
6 years old??? Wow.
Champagne Hangover September 22, 2025 - 11:14 am
Utter madness!!!
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