Melissa Gorga Says RHONJ Should Only Return With ‘Real’ Friendships Or It Won’t Work

Melissa Gorga Loses Patience, Says Bravo Needs to “Make a Decision Already” and “Cast the Damn Show” So They Can Move On

As the future of The Real Housewives of New Jersey hangs in the balance, longtime cast member Melissa Gorga is speaking out, or rather, carefully not saying much, about what’s next for the franchise. With whispers of cast shake-ups and test footage being reviewed by Bravo execs, Melissa’s carefully worded comments are raising more eyebrows than excitement.

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Speaking exclusively to Us Weekly at the Page Six Virtual Reali-Tea “VRT Awards” 2025, Melissa told the outlet, “We can’t confirm or deny, so we don’t know.” She added, “The last thing Andy Cohen said was that we’re close, which is awesome. We’re all crossing our fingers, whatever Bravo decides.”

While it’s no surprise that Melissa is eager to stay in the mix, it’s hard not to notice the strategic vagueness of her remarks, especially given recent reports that test filming is already underway. A source confirmed to Us Weekly that Melissa, along with Margaret Josephs and Dolores Catania, had been involved in filming scenes with potential new cast members. (Interestingly, Danielle Cabral confirmed she wasn’t invited to film.)

Gorga, ever the media pro, made it clear she’s ready to jump back into action. “Tap us in,” she quipped, referencing herself and husband Joe Gorga. But behind the casual confidence, her words suggest more of a scramble than a strategy.

What’s even more curious are Melissa’s comments about authenticity, a topic that’s been a lightning rod in RHONJ fandom for years, especially given her long-standing tensions with sister-in-law Teresa Giudice.

“I feel like our answer never really changes when it comes to the show,” Melissa said. “I do think it should be an authentic relationship, though. Anyone who’s trying to say it should come back with unauthentic relationships… I just think it would be a huge mistake.”

“It’s got to be a true group of friends or I really don’t think it works,” she insisted. “That’s just the facts, no matter which way it goes.”

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Yet fans have long noted that the show’s strongest emotional arcs — and most gripping drama — have revolved around Teresa Giudice, whose on-camera life has been anything but manufactured. Love her or not, Teresa has never needed to “tap in” to remain the center of the RHONJ universe.

With Bravo reportedly still undecided on the final casting, and potential newcomer Michelle Barone being eyed for the reboot, the network seems to be testing more than just new blood — it’s testing whether the old formula still works without the family-fueled feuds that defined a decade.

One thing is clear: Melissa Gorga wants back in. But if Bravo is truly prioritizing “authenticity,” as Melissa keeps repeating, the real question might be whether she fits that bill anymore, or if the show’s most iconic table-flipper was right all along.

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36 comments

notenoughtime September 22, 2025 - 1:56 pm
There would be no shows if real friendships were the driving force.
michers September 22, 2025 - 6:24 pm
Now yes but when they all had first few seasons , it was more friends , joined together , knew each other etc . Then when drama and fights gained views , the seasons continued with that narrative sadly
michers September 22, 2025 - 6:24 pm
Now yes but when they all had first few seasons , it was more friends , joined together , knew each other etc . Then when drama and fights gained views , the seasons continued with that narrative sadly
notenoughtime September 22, 2025 - 1:56 pm
There would be no shows if real friendships were the driving force.
Stevie_Rave_On September 20, 2025 - 11:51 pm
I don’t want to see Melissa come back because her fan base has destroyed any joy in interacting with the show. I’ve been called pretty cruel things just because I like the OGs and never really cared for Melissa, and when I say cruel, I mean I’ve been verbally attacked in ways that are so weird and upsetting that I genuinely believe the people saying those things are related to Melissa in some way, because I can’t think of who else would care that deeply. And it’s insane to me that Bravo is going to reward cyber bullying. I know they’re in the blogs. I know they notice the comments. I know they see the same few people only really commenting on Melissa posts and doing so viciously. I miss enjoying this show. I miss watching it. I miss being able to talk about it in a normal way and have differing opinions without literally being afraid I’m going to get doxxed. That’s literally insane. It’s reality tv. It’s supposed to be fun and entertaining and harmless. Sending your family and/or friends to attack people online is genuinely insane behavior and I’ve never seen it happen with any other franchise. Even when I was happy to see Tamara come back on OC (yes, I do regret that), even when I express any other opinion anywhere else, yeah sometimes people get snotty but no one gets as vicious as they do about NJ. Bravo, why are you rewarding this? Seriously?
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 12:31 pm
I personally do not care for Teresa, but she is Jersey. The people complaining are the ones who complained about RHONY and got the whole season recast. Then they bitch and moan about how bad the shows end up. Melissa is not a good housewife. She never was.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 21, 2025 - 2:58 pm
Good points, Good Hair. Although she's certainly gone rounds with a few of the randoms throughout the years, I don't recall Teresa trying to play producer by bitching about the casting itself. It's reportedly one of the quickest way to get your @ fired from the HW series. LVP, Yolanda, and Vicki were notorious for trying to produce their respective franchises.
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 3:07 pm
Yes! That point exactly, Teresa is not contrived in the slightest. I will always root for her and her family. I think she has been very open to show us what is really happening in her life. What you see is what you get and I love that.
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 3:07 pm
Yes! That point exactly, Teresa is not contrived in the slightest. I will always root for her and her family. I think she has been very open to show us what is really happening in her life. What you see is what you get and I love that.
michers September 21, 2025 - 5:04 pm
That’s exactly why I always preferred her over the years no matter who else was cast . Went to jail, Joe divorce , whatever - I agree
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 6:32 pm
Exactly. Im the first to say she isn't always likeable or rational...but she is real. And thats what makes a good Housewife.
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 6:32 pm
Exactly. Im the first to say she isn't always likeable or rational...but she is real. And thats what makes a good Housewife.
michers September 21, 2025 - 5:02 pm
Well said
michers September 21, 2025 - 5:02 pm
Preach all the way around ! Agree on all levels .
michers September 21, 2025 - 5:02 pm
Preach all the way around ! Agree on all levels .
Zap It September 22, 2025 - 10:58 am
Great comment. I think I know which site you're referring to. I got banned from there a few years ago for sticking up for Teresa. I didn't like that they continually called her an ape and her children apelings. Graphics and everything. It's vicious. The site even blocked my IP. ? You might be right. It could be Melissa's family because it is the same handful of people who attack and they were always online literally a few minutes after each story of Teresa was published. It's much more civil here. ?
cammierari September 24, 2025 - 10:57 am
Right On! Melissa trolls spent a day convening to harass me on Twitter years ago. It was a true gang up complete with mean horrific comments and insults. Over a reality show. What a bunch of mean girls-and guys! The addition of Melissa was the ruination of RHONJ and I hope Andy sees it.
cammierari September 20, 2025 - 9:55 pm
Is she trying to say these women are her real friends? That Melissa, she cracks me up ?
michers September 21, 2025 - 5:00 pm
Who knew she could be funny ? I loved the age shaming comment she made months back forgetting her fake show bff is much older than her And dolo , God bless her fence riding go between ass , was Teresa’s real life friend since they were young . She took hostage of the others over the years , spreading faux comments to cause turmoil amongst the real friends - and here we are . Her whole premise since joining was to wreck whatever Teresa had and it’s a shame that most of it worked . So much for a cast of friends, family and good times !
Zap It September 22, 2025 - 11:00 am
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Stevie_Rave_On September 20, 2025 - 11:51 pm
I don’t want to see Melissa come back because her fan base has destroyed any joy in interacting. I’ve been called pretty cruel things just because I like the OGs and never really cared for Melissa, and when I say cruel, I mean I’ve been verbally attacked in ways that are so weird and upsetting that I genuinely believe the people saying those things are related to Melissa in some way, because I can’t think of who else would care that deeply. And it’s insane to me that Bravo is going to reward cyber bullying. I know they’re in the blogs. I know they notice the comments. I know they see the same few people only really commenting on Melissa posts and doing so viciously. I miss enjoying this show. I miss watching it. I miss being able to talk about it in a normal way and have differing opinions without literally being afraid I’m going to get doxxed. Bravo, why are you rewarding this? Seriously?
michers September 19, 2025 - 9:55 pm
Not necessarily true as we see on every single franchise …. It’s all mostly mean girls bullshit so that’s her jam and how she always rolls with a diff group each season, I’m surprised she of all people is saying that lol . Her “ friends” are older than her but hey , whatever works against Teresa right ?
NikkiJax September 19, 2025 - 11:32 am
Tired of Teresa's problems and her screeching voice.
Zap It September 19, 2025 - 1:47 pm
Melissa is a large cause of that whole family breakdown. Unfortunately, Joe and Teresa took the bait.
Good Hair September 19, 2025 - 2:33 pm
Imagine being that thirsty to get famous.
Good Hair September 19, 2025 - 2:33 pm
Imagine being that thirsty to get famous.
Zap It September 19, 2025 - 1:47 pm
Melissa is a large cause of that whole family breakdown. Unfortunately, Joe and Teresa took the bait.
FLGreg September 19, 2025 - 9:38 am
these friendships have never been "authentic"
michers September 19, 2025 - 9:56 pm
There used to be until Melissa joined and recruit a hate squad
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 3:10 pm
Yep. And look how she treats people once they are off the cast....she pretends like they don't exist. Justice for Amber!
michers September 21, 2025 - 4:56 pm
LOL!!
Good Hair September 21, 2025 - 3:10 pm
Yep. And look how she treats people once they are off the cast....she pretends like they don't exist. Justice for Amber!
notenoughtime September 19, 2025 - 10:22 am
It is obvious that the family relationship has been bad for a long time. The show made it worse and no olive branch will fix the fracture. Melissa and Joe's thirst for relevancy is more important than relationships.
notenoughtime September 19, 2025 - 10:22 am
It is obvious that the family relationship has been bad for a long time. The show made it worse and no olive branch will fix the fracture. Melissa and Joe's thirst for relevancy is more important than relationships.
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