# All About The Real Housewives | All About the Truth — Full Content > Complete content index for LLM consumption > Generated: 2026-10-01 | Posts: 204 --- ## Louie Ruelas’ Ex Exposed URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/06/09/louie-ruelas-ex-girlfriend-exposed/ Type: post Modified: 2023-09-20 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Joe Gorga Claims Niece Gia Giudice Told Him To Leave Melissa Gorga – Gia Denies This On The RHONJ Reunion And Responds To AllAboutTRH URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/04/22/joe-gorga-gia-giudice/ Type: post Modified: 2023-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE Timeline: Melissa Gorga Promises To Put Drama Behind With Teresa Giudice URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/04/05/melissa-gorga-text-messages/ Type: post Modified: 2023-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## AllAboutTRH EXCLUSIVE: Melissa Gorga Was Asked To Be A Bridesmaid in Teresa’s Wedding While Filming Season 13 But Declined URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2022/08/15/allabouttrh-exclusive-melissa-gorga-was-asked-to-be-a-bridesmaid-in-teresas-wedding-while-filming-season-13-but-declined/ Type: post Modified: 2022-08-15 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Bethenny Frankel Defends Milania Giudice Over TMZ Video + RHONY Episode 4 Recap URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/30/bethenny-frankel-defends-milania-giudice-over-tmz-video-rhony-episode-4-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Milania Giudice’s Lawyer Breaks Silence After Court Date Is Pushed Back In Domestic Violence Case URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/30/milania-giudice-lawyer-court-date/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Bethenny Frankel Slams Release Of Milania Giudice Airport Footage And Says It Does “Serious Damage” While Heather Dubrow Agrees URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/30/bethenny-frankel-release-milania/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Reveals How Much He Pays His Babysitter As Jeff Lewis Calls Him “Cheap” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/30/andy-cohen-jeff-lewis-cheap-rate/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Carole Radziwill Says Jessel Taank’s Carolyn Bessette Question Was “Inappropriate” And Filming RHONY Was “Traumatic” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/30/carole-radziwill-taank-question-was/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dorit Kemsley Claims PK Kept Her In The Dark About Their Finances And Treated Money Questions As “Distrust” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/29/dorit-kemsley-pk-finances-dark/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-29 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Ashlee Holmes Tells Critics To “Shut The F*ck Up” While Defending Milania Giudice Amid Airport Drama & Teresa Giudice Reacts URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/29/ashlee-holmes-says-shut-milania-up/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-29 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Says Kyle Richards And Bravo Stars “Ride For Me” After They Donate To Her GoFundMe URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/29/brandi-glanville-kyle-richards-bravo/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-29 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Says Milania Is Suffering “Significant Psychological Trauma” After Bodycam Footage Surfaces URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/28/teresa-giudice-milania-suffering-is/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Luann Gets Called Out as Porsha & Gizelle Reach Their Breaking Point (RHUGT Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/28/luann-gets-called-out-as-porsha-gizelle-reach-their-breaking-point-rhugt-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jackie Goldschneider Admits She Did Not Quit RHONJ And Says “Nobody Who Got Cut Quit” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/28/jackie-goldschneider-quit-nobody/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gia Giudice Breaks Silence After Milania’s Airport Breakdown And Says It’s The “Job Of Being The Oldest” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/28/gia-giudice-milania-airport-breakdown/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Scheana Shay Reacts To Janet Caperna Unfollowing Her As Their Friendship Appears To Be Over URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/28/scheana-shay-janet-caperna-unfollowing/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Joe Giudice Begs For Compassion For Milania After Airport Incident: “What People See Does Not Tell The Whole Story” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/25/joe-giudice-compassion-milania-incident/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Tamra Judge Says Son Ryan Finally Realized “Mom’s Right” After Their “Toxic” Yearlong Falling Out URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/25/tamra-judge-ryan-moms-son-right/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Alicia Carmody Says Real Housewives of Rhode Island Completely Changed Her Life & Teases Bravo Wedding URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/25/alicia-carmody-completely-changed-her/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Milania Giudice Update + Heather Gay Apologizes to Lisa Barlow After Embarrassing Her | RHOSLC Recap URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/25/milania-giudice-update-heather-gay-apologizes-to-lisa-barlow-after-embarrassing-her-rhoslc-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Meredith Marks Says Her Past Drama With Mary Cosby Became “Insignificant” After Robert Jr.’s Death URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/25/meredith-marks-mary-cosby/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Ashley Quai Defends Lisa Barlow And Says The RHOSLC Cast Doesn’t Like Her Because She’s A “Bad Bitch” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/24/ashley-quai-lisa-barlow-cast/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Todd Tucker Says Kandi Burruss Divorce Got So Dark He “Looked At My Gun” Before Snapping Out Of It; Claims He Would Have Stayed With Kandi URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/24/todd-tucker-says-kandi-burruss-divorce/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kandi Burruss’ Daughter Riley Confirms She Got A Nose Job And Says She’ll Do “Whatever I Want” With Her Body URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/24/kandi-burruss-riley-nose-job/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## West Wilson Lands New Netflix Reality Gig After Leaving Summer House URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/24/west-wilson-netflix-reality/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Daisy Spills on Her Marriage as Jessel & Erin Go Below the Belt (RHONY Recap) + Channing Tatum Burner Account URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/23/daisy-spills-on-her-marriage-as-jessel-erin-go-below-the-belt-rhony-recap-channing-tatum-burner-account/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-23 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Salley Carson Admits She Gets Jealous Seeing Austen Kroll Make Out With Other Girls As Lala Kent Predicts They’ll Get Married URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/23/salley-carson-she-jealous-austen-kroll/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Rachel Zoe Teases “Unpredictable” RHOBH Season 16 With Leah Remini And Tracy Tutor Joining Cast URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/23/rachel-zoe-season-16-unpredicatable/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dorinda Medley Says She Wanted to “Decimate” Jessel Taank Over Lady Gaga Costume Shade; Says Jessel Needs to “Do Research.” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/23/dorinda-medley-says-taank/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kim Zolciak’s Son KJ Biermann Back Home With Her After Jail Release In Sexual Battery Case URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/22/kim-zolciak-kj-biermann-back-home/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## PK Kemsley Seeks Child Support From Dorit Kemsley Despite Making Over $100K A Month As Divorce Spending War Explodes URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/22/pk-kemsley-child-support-from/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gia Giudice Shuts Down Fears Teresa Giudice And Melissa Gorga Will Feud Again URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/22/gia-giudice-fears-and-melissa-gorga/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Says Yolanda Hadid Hooked Her Up With Doctors As She Struggles To Afford Ongoing Health Treatments URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/22/brandi-glanville-hadid-says-hooked/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jessi Draper Defends Standing By Taylor Frankie Paul URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/22/jessi-draper-defends-frankie-paul/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-22 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Breaks Down, Jacqueline Laurita Returns & Everyone’s Over Luann (RHUGT Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/21/teresa-giudice-breaks-down-jacqueline-laurita-returns-everyones-over-luann-rhugt-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kelly Dodd Says Brandi Glanville “Doesn’t Deserve A Dime” And Questions Where Her GoFundMe Money Is Really Going Saying She Looks Like She’s On Meth URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/21/kelly-dodd-says-glanville-doesnt-dime/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Meredith Marks Defends Brooks Marks And Says Fans Are Finally Seeing His Confidence On Next Gen NYC URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/21/meredith-marks-defends-brooks-marks/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## RHOC’s Carmella Garcia Says “The Dishonesty Continued” Before Ending 10-Year Relationship By Breaking Up With Danny Hampel URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/21/carmella-garcia-dishonesty-continued/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Scheana Shay Says She Apologized To Kristen Doute For Taking “Years” To See What Kristen Sees In People “In Days” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/21/scheana-shay-kristen-doute/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Prosecutors File Emergency Motion In KJ Biermann Case Seeking Forensic Interviews Of “Minor Children” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/18/prosecutors-file-emergency-kj-biermann/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Angie Katsanevas Says She Spent Every Waking Minute With Daughter Elektra After Shawn Trujillo Split URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/18/angie-katsanevas-says-she-is-daughter/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Vicki Gunvalson Fires Back At Robyn Dixon For Questioning If She Was Uncomfortable Around Black Housewives: “Complete Bullsh*t” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/18/vicki-gunvalson-robyn-dixon/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kandi Burruss Blasts Todd Tucker For Talking About Their Threesomes And Says Divorce Was The “Right Thing” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/17/kandi-burruss-todd-tucker-for/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-17 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Todd Tucker Questions How He Was An “Opportunist” When Kandi Burruss Was Living In Fayetteville And He Was Already Making His Own Money URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/17/todd-tucker-questions-opportunist-kandi/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Mary Cosby Reveals Producers Offered Her A Year Off RHOSLC After Son Robert Jr.’s Death URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/17/mary-cosby-reveals-producers-rhoscl/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Todd Tucker Says Shamea Morton Texted Him To Delete Viral Sex Scene Promo After He Used Her Husband’s RHOA Reaction URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/17/todd-tucker-says-shamea-morton-texted/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Erin vs. Everyone? Jessel’s Kennedy Comments & Trouble for Daisy’s Marriage? (RHONY Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/16/erin-vs-everyone-jessels-kennedy-comments-trouble-for-daisys-marriage-rhony-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jessel Taank Says Erin Lichy Wants To “Make Amends” Then Turns Around And Does “Dumb Sh*t” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/16/jessel-taank-erin-lichy-make-amends/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Robyn Dixon Questions If Vicki Gunvalson Was Uncomfortable In Atlanta Because RHUGT Party Was Centered Around Black Housewives URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/16/robyn-dixon-questions-gunvalson/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kroy Biermann Ordered To Pay Over $64K In Gambling Debt As Son KJ’s Legal Troubles Escalate URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/16/kroy-biermann-ordered-pay-gambling/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jenn Pedranti Feels Bad For Vicki Gunvalson URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/16/jenn-pedranti-feels-bad-for-gunvalson/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-16 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says Vicki Gunvalson May Not Be “Vibing” With Fans Because She’s In A Different Life Stage & Talks Her Struggles URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/15/andy-cohen-gunvalson-may-not-be-fans/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-15 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Chanel Ayan Says She Was Just “Protecting” Jessel Taank After RHONY Voicemail Drama And Admits She’s “Just A Gossiper” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/15/chanel-ayan-protecting-taank-she-was/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-15 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says Ashley Graham Would Be “Amazing” On RHOBH After She Had No Idea Beverly Hills Drama Was Happening Around Her URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/15/andy-cohen-ashley-graham-amazing-on/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-15 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Ciara Miller Reveals Which DWTS Costar Left Her Completely Starstruck Before Ballroom Debut URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/15/ciara-miller-reveals-which-costar/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-15 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Lisa & Teresa Are the Duo We Needed + Luann Has ZERO Self-Awareness?! (RHUGT & RHOC Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/lisa-teresa-are-the-duo-we-needed-luann-has-zero-self-awareness-rhugt-rhoc-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-14 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## NeNe Leakes Says Kim Zolciak Is “Not OK” After Son KJ Biermann’s Arrest As She Reveals Where They Stand URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/nene-leakes-says-kim-zolciak-is-not-ok/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards, Vicki Gunvalson And Other Real Housewives Stars Donate To Brandi Glanville’s GoFundMe Amid Health Battle URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/kyle-richards-gunvalson-donate-brandi/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Sophie Cunningham Seemingly Drops West Wilson From Podcast After He Publicly Disagreed With Her Trans Athlete Stance URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/sophie-cunningham-seemingly-drops-west-wilson-from-podcast-after-he-publicly-disagreed-with-her-trans-athlete-stance/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Steve McBee Sr. Breaks Silence After Prison Release As Family Celebrates Being “Complete” Again URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/steve-mcbee-sr-prison-release/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kim Zolciak And Kroy Biermann’s Son KJ Facing New Scrutiny After Prosecutors Claim Videos With Underage Relative Were Found URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/14/kim-zolciak-videos-underage-relative/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Tamra Judge Says Vicki Gunvalson Has Been “Repeating And Recycling” The Same RHOC Behavior For 20 Years URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/11/tamra-judge-vicki-gunvalson-not-a/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## CT Tamburello’s Estranged Wife Breaks Silence On Whether Phaedra Parks Romance Started Before Their Marriage Ended + Apollo Reacts URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/11/ct-tamburello-estranged-wife-parks/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Charrisse Jackson-Jordan Says RHUGT Left Her Out Even Though She “Laid The Foundation” For Potomac URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/11/charrisse-jackson-jordan-out/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dolores Catania Appears Stumped When Asked About RHONJ Season 15: “It’s Going To Be Different” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/10/dolores-catania-when-asked/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Todd Tucker Puts Kandi Burruss Divorce Front And Center In New Reality Show With RHOA Ex-Husbands URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/10/todd-tucker-kandi-burruss-divorce/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Steven McBee Jr. Reveals Dad Steve McBee’s Prison Release Date as Family Prepares for His Homecoming URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/10/steven-mcbee-jr-prison/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Meredith Marks Says Fans Are “Not Getting Rid” Of Her After Nearly Quitting RHOSLC URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/10/meredith-marks-not-getting-rid/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Is RHONY Finally Back? New Wives, Martha Stewart, Eric Vs. Jessel (RHONY Premiere Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/09/is-rhony-finally-back-new-wives-martha-stewart-eric-vs-jessel-rhony-premiere-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-09 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Says Louie Ruelas Didn’t “Sign Up” For RHONJ Attacks As Kyle Richards Says Spouses Don’t Even Get Paid URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/09/teresa-giudice-louie-ruelas-sign-up/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-08 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says Phaedra Parks And CT Tamburello’s Relationship “Seems Very Real” After Knowing About It For Weeks URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/09/andy-cohen-parks-ct-relationship/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-08 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Vicki Gunvalson Faces Fan Backlash Over RHUGT Behavior & Shocking RHOC Allegations URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/09/vicki-gunvalson-faces-fan-backlash-over-rhugt-behavior-shocking-rhoc-allegations/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-08 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Says She Feels “Like Death” As She Shows 18-Hour IV Treatment Amid Health Battle URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/09/brandi-glanville-feels-like-death/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-08 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Caroline Manzo Says She’s Not Done With Reality TV And Reveals She Still Has A Close Bond With Kathy Wakile URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/08/caroline-manzo-not-done-with-reality/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Reveals Lisa Vanderpump Rejected RHUGT Cameo And Guesses It’s Because She “Can’t Stand Kyle And Dorit” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/08/andy-cohen-lisa-vanderpump/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Hints NeNe Leakes’ RHOA Return May Not Be Happening As He Says Cast Is Already “Stacked” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/08/andy-cohen-nene-leakes-return-2/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Erin Lichy Says RHONY Fans Think She’s “Pampered” But Insists She Has “Worked My Ass Off” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/08/erin-lichy-fans-think-she-pampered/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Todd Tucker Fires Back After Fans Drag Him For Using Shamea Morton’s Husband Being “Pissed” To Promote Her Steamy Bolo Scene In His Movie URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/07/todd-tucker-dragged-for-shamea-morton/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Shannon Beador Says Filming With Tamra Judge Is “Exhausting” As Heather Dubrow Calls Her Take Confusing URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/07/shannon-beador-says-filming-with-judge/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kim Zolciak And Kroy Biermann Face Strip Searches, Dress Code Rules And Security Checks To Visit Son KJ After 7-Count Indictment URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/07/kim-zolciak-kroy-biermann-son/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Caroline Manzo Says She Misses “Certain Things” About Dina Manzo But Admits There Is “A Lot Of Hurt” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/04/caroline-manzo-misses-certain-dina/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Camille Grammer Suggests Caroline Manzo Shouldn’t Get To Keep RHUGT Footage From Airing When Housewives Have All Had Painful Moments Shown URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/04/camille-grammer-caroline-manzo/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Aaron Phypers Claims Denise Richards Owes Him More Than $23K In Support And Says He Had To Move Into A “Humblingly Cheap Place” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/04/aaron-phypers-richards-owes-support/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Seth Marks Defends Son Brooks Marks After Account Claims Meredith Marks Got “Scammed” By His Fashion Line URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/04/seth-marks-brooks-fashion-line/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Granted Temporary Restraining Order Against Brittany Cartwright Amid Bitter Divorce Battle URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/03/jax-taylor-granted-restraining-order/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Caroline Manzo Says She Has “No Malice” Toward Brandi Glanville But Fears RHUGT Footage Will Impact Her Mental Health Forever URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/03/caroline-manzo-has-no-malice-brandi/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Janet Caperna Raises Eyebrows After Posting “Karma” And Calling It A “Great Night” Following Nia Sanchez And Danny Booko’s The Valley Exit URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/03/janet-caperna-nia-sanchez-danny/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Nia & Danny OUT of The Valley, Scheana IN? Michelle’s New Man, Jax & Brittany’s Divorce Gets UGLY + Love Island Reunion Recap URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/nia-danny-out-of-the-valley-scheana-in-michelles-new-man-jax-brittanys-divorce-gets-ugly-love-island-reunion-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Says She Likes LeAnn Rimes More Than Eddie Cibrian After Years Of Feuding URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/03/brandi-glanville-leann-rimes-eddie/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Nia Sanchez And Danny Booko Choose Family Over The Valley As Producers Reportedly Felt Their Cast Dynamic Was “Not As Organic” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/03/nia-sanchez-danny-booko-producers/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-02 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Nia Sanchez And Danny Booko Quit The Valley After Three Seasons As Scheana Shay Tells Them To “Protect Your Peace” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/nia-sanchez-danny-booko-quit-valley/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Claims Brittany Cartwright Drank Tequila After His Rehab Stay And Asked If They Should “Have Sex Again” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/jax-taylor-cartwright-tequila-rehab/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Tamra Judge Admits The Tres Amigas Was “Embarrassing” To Her And Reveals Why She Really Walked Away URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/tamra-judge-admits-tres-amigas-was/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Files His Own Restraining Order Against Brittany Cartwright And Claims She Cost Him $175K “Comeback” Role URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/jax-taylor-files-brittany-order/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gina Kirschenheiter Says Heather Dubrow Needs Every Fight To End With Her Being “Right” And Everyone Else Being “Wrong” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/gina-kirschenheiter-heather-dubrow-says/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brittany Cartwright Warns Jax Taylor That Lori Krebs Is “Never” To Be Around Their Son Cruz URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/brittany-cartwright-jax-taylor-lori/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Allegedly Told Brittany Cartwright She Is “Not Getting The Ring Back Till Court” Amid Divorce War URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/02/jax-taylor-brittany-cartwright-ring/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Urges Fans Not To Rush To Judgment After Kim Zolciak’s Son KJ Is Arrested: Let’s Not Ruin The Kids Life URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/01/brandi-glanville-kim-zolciak-arrest-son/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Caroline Manzo Says Doctors Warned She’s “A Heart Attack Waiting To Happen” Despite Working Out And Eating Clean URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/01/caroline-manzo-heart-attack-waiting-to/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Ariana Biermann Says Money Played A Role In Hudson McLeroy Split After Starting Next Gen NYC With “$200 To My Name” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/01/ariana-biermann-money-hudson-split/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says NeNe Leakes Is Too Important To Housewives History To Leave Out Of 20-Year Celebration URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/01/andy-cohen-nene-leakes-important/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Is Shane Simpson Every Overworked Mom? Plus Heather Dubrow Backlash & Vicki Unfiltered (RHOC & RHUGT Recap) URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/09/01/is-shane-simpson-every-overworked-mom-plus-heather-dubrow-backlash-vicki-unfiltered-rhoc-rhugt-recap/ Type: post Modified: 2026-09-01 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Zack Wickham Calls Out Jax Taylor’s Girlfriend Lori Krebs After Brittany Cartwright Is Granted Restraining Order URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/31/wickham-jax-taylor-girlfriend-lori/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Tamra Judge Says She Wanted To “Punch” Kyle Richards After She Bragged About Being The Longest-Running “Consecutive” Housewife URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/31/tamra-judge-says-punch-kyle-richards/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brittany Cartwright Breaks Silence After Claiming Jax Taylor Threatened To “Gut” Her “Like A Fish”: “I’m OK” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/31/brittany-cartwright-breaks-silence-ok/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brittany Cartwright Claims Jax Taylor Threatened To “Gut” Her “Like A Fish” And Fat-Shamed Her In Front Of Their Son Amid Granted Restraining Order URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/31/cartwright-jax-taylor-threatened/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Crystal Kung Minkoff Shuts Down RHOBH Return Rumors After Ultimate Girls Trip Sparked Comeback Buzz URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/28/crystal-kung-minkoff-shuts-return/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Antonia Gorga Says She Wants To Build Her Own Platform After Growing Up On RHONJ URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/28/antonia-gorga-wants-to-build-her-own/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Lisa Rinna Shades Real Housewives Traitors Casting And Says She “Doesn’t Care” Which Bravo Star Joins Next URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/28/lisa-rinna-traitors-casting-real/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-28 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Leah Remini’s RHOBH Casting Could Be Bravo’s Smartest Move Yet Thanks To Her Scientology, Tom Cruise And J.Lo History URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/27/leah-remini-rhobh-casting-bravo/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Accuses Brittany Cartwright Of Trying To “Sabotage” His Work After She Allegedly Contacted Autism Dads Event URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/27/jax-taylor-accuses-brittany-sabotage/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dorit Kemsley Ordered To Move Out As Judge Forces Sale Of $7 Million Mansion Amid PK Divorce Battle URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/27/dorit-kemsley-pk-kemsley-judge/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Says Southern Charm’s Salley Carson Privately Apologized for ‘Terrified’ Claim and Offered to Go Public, But He Declined URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/26/steven-mcbee-jr-southern-charm/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Former RHOC Producer Claims Shannon Beador “Hates” Filming But “Loves Being Famous” As He Doubles Down On Behind-The-Scenes Behavior URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/26/former-producer-shannon-beador/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Reveals Where He Stands With Galyna After She Smashed His Truck Windows URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/26/steven-mcbee-jr-galyna-reveals/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Reveals Bravo Has Tried Casting Real Housewives In Nashville, Chicago And Greenwich URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/26/andy-cohen-reveals-cities-cast/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-26 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Steven McBee Jr. Shows Receipt After Allie Eklund Says Family Visit Went Badly URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/26/steven-mcbee-jr-allie-eklund-family/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Antonia Gorga Admits She Was “Iffy” About First Christmas With Giudice Cousins After Years Of Family Drama URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/25/antonia-gorga-admits-she-was/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Claims Allie Eklund Refused to Film The McBee Dynasty Finale Without More Money URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/25/steven-mcbee-jr-claims-allie-eklund/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Antonia Gorga Says Joe Gorga’s “Entire Attitude” Changed After Gorga-Giudice Family Reconciliation URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/25/antonia-gorga-says-joe-gorgas-changed/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. “Mind Blown” by Allie Eklund’s Tallow Launch After Kacie McBee Drama: “She Doesn’t Even Use Tallow” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/25/steven-mcbee-jr-mind-blown-by-allie/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Scheana Shay Says Lala Kent’s Valley Reunion Tears Felt “Very Performative” After She Never Reached Out Privately URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/25/scheana-shay-says-lala-kents/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-25 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Reveals If He’ll Return for Season 4 After Allie Eklund Fallout: “I Want a Mulligan” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/24/steven-mcbee-jr-reveals-season-4/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Reveals His Newfound Respect for Ex Calah Jackson Following Split From Allie Eklund URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/24/steven-mcbee-jr-calah-respect/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Porsha Williams Says Luann De Lesseps Got On Her “Last Nerve” During RHUGT And Teases Vicki Gunvalson’s Surprising Turnaround URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/24/porsha-williams-luann-de-lesseps/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## EXCLUSIVE: Steven McBee Jr. Exposes Steve Sr.’s Conflicting Stories About Masha Petrova URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/24/steven-mcbee-jr-masha-steve/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dolores Catania Shuts Down Rumor Liz McGraw Is Secretly Filming RHORI Season 2 After Exit URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/24/dolores-catania-rumor-liz-mcgraw/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-24 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kim Zolciak Defends Son KJ Biermann After “Deeply Troubling” Arrest: “He Categorically Denies” Allegations URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/23/kim-zolciak-kj-biermann-arrest/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-23 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Cynthia Bailey Says Vicki Gunvalson Had “No Idea” Who She Was While Filming RHUGT URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/21/cynthia-bailey-says-idea-gunvalson/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Emily Simpson Says She’s “Struggling” Over How To Help Son Luke Amid PANDAS And ARFID Diagnoses URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/21/emily-simpson-says-shes-struggling/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Salley Carson Says She And Kyle Cooke Are “Just Friends” But “Sometimes Flirty” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/21/salley-carson-says-she-and-kyle-cooke-are-just-friends-but-sometimes-flirty/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## RHOC Recap & RHUGT Roaring ’20s: Vicki Takes It Too Far With Carmela & The OG’s URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/21/rhoc-recap-rhugt-roaring-20s-vicki-takes-it-too-far-with-carmela-the-ogs/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-21 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Diana Jenkins Denies Rumors She Was The Friend In Hayden Panettiere’s Disturbing Yacht Story And Threatens Legal Action URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/20/diana-jenkins-denies-hayden-panettiere/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-20 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Lisa Rinna Accuses Patrick Clancy Of Killing His Children Despite Lindsay Clancy’s Defense Acknowledging She Did It URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/20/lisa-rinna-patrick-clancy-children/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-20 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Tracy Tutor Joins RHOBH Season 16 And Teases She’s “Likely To Get Into Some Trouble” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/20/tracy-tutor-season-trouble/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-20 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## The Valley Reunion Recap Part Three: Does Andy Cohen Even Watch the Show? URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/20/the-valley-reunion-recap-part-three-does-andy-cohen-even-watch-the-show/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-20 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Riley Burruss Says She Got Racist Texts After Ariana Biermann Said On WWHL That She Didn’t Reach Out URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/19/riley-burruss-ariana-racist-biermann/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-19 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kandi Burruss Fires Back After K. Michelle Appears To Call Her A “Mean Girl” On RHOA Reunion URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/19/kandi-burruss-k-michelle-mean-girl/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-19 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Riley Burruss Admits She “Messed Up” On Next Gen NYC And Says Kandi Burruss Is Giving Her “Tough Love” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/19/riley-burruss-kandi-love-tough/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-19 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Scheana Shay Says Janet Caperna Told Brittany Cartwright About Brock Davies Cheating Behind Her Back URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/19/scheana-shay-says-janet-caperna/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-19 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## McBee Dynasty Finale: Galyna’s Crash Out, Steven & Allie Split + Jesse & Cole’s Federal Trial URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/18/mcbee-dynasty-finale-galynas-crash-out-steven-allie-split-jesse-coles-federal-trial/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Stassi Schroeder Fires Back At “Absent Mom” Criticism After House Of Stassi: “You Didn’t Even See A Scene Of Me Parenting” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/18/stassi-schroeder-fires-back-mom/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Emily Simpson Reveals She’s “Microdosing” GLP-1 Medication To Maintain Her 50-Pound Weight Loss URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/18/emily-simpson-medication/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Meredith Marks Says Mary Cosby’s Strength After Son Robert Jr.’s Death Will Be “Inspirational” To Watch On RHOSLC URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/18/meredith-marks-says-mary-cosbys-son/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-18 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Says She Almost “Flipped A Table” On Vicki Gunvalson After RHUGT Tax Drama URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/17/teresa-giudice-flipped-table-vicki/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-17 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Steven McBee Jr. Defends Sophie Cunningham And Calls Out Summer House Star West Wilson Over Trans Athletes Debate URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/17/steven-mcbee-sophie-west-wilson/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-17 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Melissa Gorga Says RHONJ Season 15 Brings Back The Fun After Years Of Toxic Cast Division URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/17/melissa-gorga-says-rhonj-season-15/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-17 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Dorit Kemsley Blocks PK’s Emergency Attempt To Force Sale Of Their $6 Million L.A. Home URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/17/dorit-kemsley-emergency-attempt/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-17 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Shannon Beador Says Tamra Judge Friendship Is Still An “Exhausting Journey” As Vicki Gunvalson Gets Stuck In The Middle URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/14/shannon-beador-tamra-judge-journey/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-14 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Fuels Kenya Moore RHOA Return Speculation After Admitting He Misses Her: “I Think About Her All The Time” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/14/andy-cohen-kenya-moore-return/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-14 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gina Kirschenheiter Says Fighting With Heather Dubrow Is “The Worst” And Admits They Clash Every Year URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/14/gina-kirschenheiter-worst-dubrow/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-14 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## RHOC Recap: Why Doesn’t Heather Dubrow Have a Buddy? URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/14/rhoc-recap-why-doesnt-heather-dubrow-have-a-buddy/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-14 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jasmine Goode Backtracks After Saying She’s “So Sick Of The Kids” And Rolling Her Eyes At Nia Sanchez’s Postpartum Struggles URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/13/jasmine-goode-backtracks-kids-sick/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## The Valley Reunion Part 2: Lala Comes for Danny, Jasmine’s Parenting Comments & The Double Standards URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/13/the-valley-reunion-part-2-lala-comes-for-danny-jasmines-parenting-comments-the-double-standards/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Mauricio Umansky Says He’s Considering L.A. Mayor Run To “Make L.A. Great Again” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/13/mauricio-umansky-la-mayor-run/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Marcellus Wiley Accuses RHOBH’s Annemarie Wiley Of Making “Three” Failed Attempts To Have Him Arrested URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/13/marcellus-wiley-annemarie-police/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-13 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says Dorit Kemsley Ignored Her After She Reached Out Following RHOBH Fallout URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/12/kyle-richards-dorit-kemsley-her/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-12 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Milania Giudice Enrolls In Anger Management Classes Following Arrest URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/12/milania-giudice-anger-management/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-12 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brielle Biermann Denies Shading Brigette Pheloung After Posting Herself In Same Vera Wang Wedding Dress URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/12/brielle-biermann-denies-shading-bride/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-12 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Ashley Darby Says She Had To Address The “Elephant In The Room” With Kyle Richards After Flirting With Mauricio Umansky URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/12/ashley-darby-kyle-richards/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-12 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Reacts To Bravo Stars Not Watching Their Season Before Reunion Amid Amanda Batula Backlash URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/11/andy-cohen-bravo-season/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Names Tamra Judge As The Most Annoying Housewife URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/11/teresa-giudice-tamra-judge-2/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Mocks President Donald Trump For Being Obese & Wearing Too Much Makeup URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/11/andy-cohen-president-donald-trump-obese/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## McBee Dynasty Family Shake-Up: Cole Married, Another Baby & Steven Moving Away URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/11/mcbee-dynasty-family-shake-up-cole-married-another-baby-steven-moving-away/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-11 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Defends Casting Conservative Housewives After Fan Asks Why Bravo Has “So Many MAGA Women” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/10/andy-cohen-defends-casting-conservative/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Brandi Glanville Says It’s “Whack” Denise Richards Discussed Alleged Aaron Phypers Abuse On A Podcast URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/10/brandi-glanville-abuse-denise/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says Reality Stars Running For Office Have A “Terrible” Track Record URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/10/andy-cohen-says-reality-stars-terrible/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Says Carole Radziwill Answers “Everything” About Epstein Files Amid Fans Threatening To Boycott RHONY URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/10/andy-cohen-carole-radziwill-epstein/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Melissa Gorga Says RHONJ Fans Will See A New Side Of Her Family After Teresa Giudice Reconciliation & Talks Caroline Manzo URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/10/melissa-gorga-fans-new-side-family/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-10 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says She Wanted To “Kill” Mauricio Umansky For Getting Daughter Alexia Involved In Special Forces URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/08/kyle-richards-mauricio-umansky-3/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-08 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Lisa Barlow Says She “Wins Every Reunion” As Kyle Richards Compares Housewives Reunions To Boxing URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/07/lisa-barlow-wins-reunion/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gizelle Bryant Says She Loves Confessionals Because She Gets To “Trash Everyone” As Luann De Lesseps Calls Them “Torture” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/07/gizelle-bryant-housewives-confessionals/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Porsha Williams Says She’s “Hopeful” NeNe Leakes Will Return To RHOA After Ultimate Girls Trip Reunion URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/07/porsha-williams-leakes-hopeful-return/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-07 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## RHOC Recap: Vicki Gunvalson Defends Briana’s Marriage + Is Carmella Buying Her Way Into RHOC? URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/rhoc-recap-vicki-gunvalson-defends-brianas-marriage-is-carmella-buying-her-way-into-rhoc/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kathy Hilton And Jennifer Tilly React After Amanda Frances Is Fired From RHOBH After One Season URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/kathy-hilton-amanda-frances-firing/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Vicki Gunvalson Tells Fans To “Shut Up” About Daughter Briana’s Marriage After RHOC Raises Questions About Her Private Life URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/vicki-gunvalson-daughter-briana-2/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Calls Brittany Cartwright A “Liar” And Claims She Told Him To “Take Down Danny And Nia” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/jax-taylor-calls-brittany-cartwright/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Denise Richards Claims Aaron Phypers Was “So Remorseful” After Slapping Her That She Felt Bad For Him URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/denise-richards-aaron-phypers-3/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## The Valley Reunion S.3 Part 1: Lacy Catches Michelle in a Lie URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/the-valley-reunion-s-3-part-1-lacy-catches-michelle-in-a-lie/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Denise Richards Says Sami Sheen Is Charlie Sheen’s “Karma” And “Stands Up To Him The Most” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/06/denise-richards-sami-sheen-charlie/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-06 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says Housewives Producers Manipulate Cast Into Bringing Up Drama URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/kyle-richards-says-housewives-producers/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Says Spouses Should Be Off-Limits After Luis Ruelas Was Attacked On RHONJ: “He Didn’t Sign Up For This” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/teresa-giudice-spouses-off-limits/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Gizelle Bryant And Porsha Williams Explain How Real Housewives Took On Politics, Black Lives Matter And Race Conversations URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/gizelle-bryant-porsha-williams-politics/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Teresa Giudice Says She Regrets Filming Legal Drama And Claims Being A Celebrity Made Her Go To Jail URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/teresa-giudice-regrets-filming-legal/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says Fans Made Her Feel Like She “Let Them Down” After Mauricio Umansky Separation URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/kyle-richards-fans-down/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Vicki Gunvalson Admits RHOC “Killed” Her Marriage As Housewives Debate Whether Bravo Breaks Relationships URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/vicki-gunvalson-admits-marriage/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says Portia Asked If RHOBH Would Film “Until Everybody Dies” As Housewives Reflect On Their Kids Growing Up On Bravo URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/kyle-richards-says-portia/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kyle Richards Says She’s “Not Here For Nothing” As Housewives Talk Big Salaries And Holding Onto Their Bravo Checks URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/kyle-richards-salary/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Lisa Barlow Defends Real Housewives Legacy And Says Money Doesn’t Spare You From Marriage, Friendship Or Family Problems URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/lisa-barlow-money-spare-you/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Andy Cohen Jokes About Putting Kim Zolciak, Kandi Burruss and Teresa Giudice In The Same Text Chain After Next Gen NYC Reunion URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/05/andy-cohen-kim-zolciak-kandi-teresa/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-05 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## McBee Dynasty Recap: Allie Eklund Moves On With a Bravo Star as Mama McBee Steps Away From the Spotlight URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/04/mcbee-dynasty-recap-allie-eklund-moves-on-with-a-bravo-star-as-mama-mcbee-steps-away-from-the-spotlight/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-04 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kandi Burruss Says Daughter Riley Is Getting Racist Hate Mail Over Next Gen NYC Drama: “She’s Letting That Stuff Get To Her” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/04/kandi-burruss-riley-racist/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-04 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Stassi Schroeder Fires Back After Fan Digs Up Beau Clark’s Past Bankruptcy: “Yes We Are Both Terrible” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/04/stassi-schroeder-beau-bankruptcy/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-04 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Kandi Burruss Confirms She Turned Down RHOA Return: “It Would Be Blocking Me” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/04/kandi-burruss-turned-down-return/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-04 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## NeNe Leakes’ RHOA Return Rumors Shut Down As Sources Say No Season 18 Contracts Have Gone Out URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/04/nene-leakes-rhoa-return-rumors-shut/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-04 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Janet Caperna Doubles Down After The Valley Finale + Our Honest House of Stassi First Impressions URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/janet-caperna-doubles-down-after-the-valley-finale-our-honest-house-of-stassi-first-impressions/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Calah Jackson Fires Back After Kristi McBee Announces Family Is Stepping Out Of Public Eye Amid Relentless Smear Campaign URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/calah-jackson-kristi-mcbee/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Shannon Beador Fires Back After Former RHOC Producer Accuses Her Of Crew Meltdowns: “I Cooked You Dinner” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/shannon-beador-producer/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Jax Taylor Accuses Brittany Cartwright Of Sabotaging His Career Amid Bitter Divorce: “This Has Become A Pattern” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/jax-taylor-brittany-cartwright/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Allie Eklund Spotted With Austen Kroll After Steven McBee Jr. Split As Fans Question If McBee Dynasty Was Her Bravo Launchpad URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/allie-eklund-austen-kroll-mcbee/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## RHOM Star Stephanie Shojaee Says She Was Robbed In France And Warns South Of France Is “Not Safe” URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/stephanie-shojaee-robbed-france/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## PK Kemsley’s Friend Claims He Loaned Him $100K To Help Save Family Home Amid “Fractured” Relationship With Dorit URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/08/03/pk-kemsley-loaned-money/ Type: post Modified: 2026-08-03 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. --- ## Janet Caperna Laughs Off Assault Claims Against Danny Booko After Admitting Drink Throwing Can Be Assault URL: https://allabouttrh.com/2026/07/30/janet-caperna-assault-danny-booko/ Type: post Modified: 2026-07-30 Louie Ruelas‘ ex-girlfriend, the one who has claimed to be the victim of being in a abusive relationship with a narcissist, has filed a restraining order on Louie Ruelas. For those who don’t know, Louie Ruelas actually filed a restraining order against the ex-girlfriend back in 2020. Vanessa Reiser has a history of labeling her exes and attempting to defame them to anyone who will listen. Prior to Louie, Vanessa was married two previous times. Vanessa claims that her first husband who she had a son with was abusive. She claims her second husband Glenn Reiser was a cheater and she has now labeled Teresa Giudice’s husband Louie Ruelas a narcissist.  Louie Ruelas Ex Vanessa Reiser Prior to marrying her second husband Glenn, Vanessa also allegedly dated a man named Paul Devlin who has association with MLB. Paul claimed that Vanessa stole his jeep and then put an order of protection against him.  According to court documents Paul even sent a letter to Glenn while he was married to Vanessa warning him all about Vanessa Reiser. This was found in court documents against Vanessa Reiser. Court Documents On May 18, 2018, Glenn Reiser filed a restraining order against Vanessa Reiser Glenn Reiser says that while he and Vanessa figured out their divorce, he requested to move into an extra room in the marital residence until things were all sorted out. Glenn Reiser states that Vanessa committed the following family offenses: Disorderly conduct; Harassment in the first or second degree, stalking and criminal mischief. Glenn discusses an altercation with Vanessa where she was intoxicated, stumbling, smelling of alcohol and enraged. He asked her to leave and when she finally did, he heard a big bang and had to contact the police department filing a domestic incident report. Glenn recalls, “The following morning, I noticed a dent on my car, which was caused by Vanessa the night prior.” Glenn talks about an incident from May 15, 2018 where is attorney submitted their Verizon Bill which contained his phone records. Glenn says that Vanessa took it upon herself to begin contacting numbers found on her phone records and zoned in on his friend, Danielle. He describes Danielle as a married mom with an 8 year old son. Vanessa began contacting Danielle and Danielle’s husband accusing Glenn of having an affair with Danielle. He informed his attorney. On May 18th, 2018 — he was informed that Vanessa placed a tracker on his vehicle and has a report of his whereabouts since January, 2018. Glenn says that Vanessa had been stalking him for months. Glenn says, “Since May 16th, Vanessa has been contacting Danielle’s husband, my sister and our mutual friends non-stop, harassing, and making false accusations that I have been having an affair. Moreso, Vanessa is making threats to Danielle. This is affecting my work and my day to day being. Vanessa has no legitimate reason to engage in this behavior. I moved from the marital residence in December, 2017 and we are in the middle of an action for divorce.” Glenn pleads, “I am afraid for my safety, and Vanessa’s behavior. Vanessa does not want a divorce and her behavior has been increasingly erratic since being served with the action for divorce. She is unstable.” Glenn then requests an order of protection that Vanessa be ordered to stay away from him, his home, work place, and that Vanessa refrain from any and all communication with him or any third parties about him. Glenn Pleads Order Of Protection I Am Afraid For My Safety Order Of Protection Glenn Rieser was granted the restraining order from his ex-wife Vanessa Rieser. Court Orders The ex-girlfriend has allegedly been stalking Louie Ruelas and repeating the same exact patterns since he got with Teresa Giudice even messaging AllAboutTRH on Instagram regarding Louie’s earlier appearance. The ex-girlfriend has made Louie Ruelas last few years a living hell and claims Louie Ruelas allegedly abused her, yet continues following all of his wife’s co-stars, Melissa’s family members, Melissa Gorga, Joe Gorga, Frank Catania and more. She engages regularly with Melissa Gorgas sisters and comments on majority of Melissa Gorgas photos. Joe Gorga and Frank Catania both follow her. All videos that have been released of Louie Ruelas since appearing on the Real Housewives were videos he had sent the ex-girlfriend.  This ex-girlfriend has allegedly been in contact with Margaret Josephs for the last few years and they both follow each other on Instagram. Victims who have been horrifically abused as Vanessa Reiser has claimed, typically want nothing to do with the abuser. As for Vanessa, she has made it her mission to ruin Louie Ruelas life even following Teresa Giudice’s daughters on social media before they blocked her.  The story of Vanessa Reiser and Louie Ruelas: This deep dive comes from Bravo Ducking Bravo who did a great job with laying out all the details Bravo Ducking Bravo Luis Ruelas Bravo Ducking Bravo According to the court documents, on March 25, 2020, the couple break up and Vanessa entered the main home with a friend, carrying black garbage bags. Louie states that he was watching a movie with one of his sons and she was very disruptive, yelling, and scared the son. The next day Louie takes legal action  Bravo ducking Bravo recaps that Louie formally requested that she no longer contact him, disparage him publicly. He also asked that she return the ring, reimburse him for $175k spent on his Amex card and return a peloton bike leased by his company.  A few days later the ex-girlfriend reaches out to Louie’s friend to ask him to communicate with Louie on her behalf. Bravo ducking Bravo says that “during their relationship, they were active donors at a charity for women. Louie states that he helped her become a board member. He had been a longtime supporter of theirs. On April 1, he emailed the Director of organization and Vanessa heard about it. He explained why he believed Vanessa may not be a good fit for the organization.” In the court document, which showcases the letter written by Louie, Louie explains that Vanessa verbally abused him on a regular, along with psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm. Elizabeth,  I hope this email finds you well.  As you know, I have been a supporter of the important work of the Center for Safety and Change (CSC) for a number of years. Having witnessed, first hand, as a child, the impact of intimate partner violence, I believe deeply in the value of the resources provided by CSC.  As a business owner, I am mindful of the fact that an organization is made up of individuals, and its vision and success is guided by the Board of Directors. It is for that reason I write you today, as I am concerned about the propriety of Vanessa Reiser, LCSW remaining on the Board of Directors for the CSC.  As you know, Ms. Reiser and I were in a relationship for several years and it was, in part, my recommendation and support that facilitated Ms. Reiser’s appointment to the Board. At the time, Ms. Reiser and I had only been in an intimate relationship for a relatively short period of time and I believed that she was committed to the fundamental moral and philosophical principals on which CSC was founded.  Unfortunately, in retrospect, I am now aware that at the time I made the recommendation Ms. Reiser was engaging me in the “honeymoon phase” commonly identified in the “wheel” model of intimate partner violence. What followed, in the months after, was a classic presentation of coercive control and intimate partner abuse that, with the support of family and friends, I was only able to extricate myself from over the last several weeks. From verbal abuse, and psychological manipulation to threats of personal and professional harm, Ms. Reiser repeatedly utilized her background in mental health to engage in “gaslighting” tactics against me, all while taking terrible advantage of me financially, including, but not limited to, such behaviors as removing funds from my accounts without my prior knowledge or consent. Again, like so many perpetrators of intimate partner abuse, while she was engaging in these behaviors, Ms. Reiser successfully isolated me and “fed” estrangements between myself and my support system, to ensure that I would remain susceptible to her control.  While I am working hard, with the support of friends and professionals, to heal from the emotional and psychological harm Ms. Reiser’s behaviors caused to me, and working with my attorney to pursue all available remedies for the aforesaid financial improprieties, I wanted to bring these issues to your attention so that you may take whatever steps may be appropriate to address the impact of same on Ms. Reiser’s propriety as a Board Member for CSC. It is my belief that her continued participation on the Board of Directors threatens and undermines the credibility of CSC.  I know that you, personally, and CSC, as an organization, are deeply committed to increasing awareness of intimate partner violence and supporting those who have been impacted by it. The presence of an individual, on the Board of Directors, who engages in the very behaviors that the CSC was founded to prevent and eradicate is deeply problematic. Although I have no desire to involve you, or any third parties in issues arising from the end of a relationship, my conscience required that I bring this matter to your attention so that you may take whatever steps you deem appropriate to protect the Board and CSC mission.  Can you please forward this email to Linie Chang Rand, I don’t have her email.  Thank you for your attention and consideration.   Respectfully- Louie  In another court document, Louie reveals, similarly to what Glenn did, that Vanessa would locate him and “fed” estrangements between Louie and his support system, to ensure he remains under her control.  The court document states that two days later Vanessa contacted Louie and in a moment of weakness he responded to her. He says that “she was recording our conversation and trying to convince me not to pursue my claims for the ring and money.” Two weeks later, Vanessa files a civil action/complaint about keeping a business that Louie made for her. She asks for control of the business that he made for her Louie files a suit right afterwards and states he is only filing because she wont return the ring and money owed to him. He says she has engaged in sociopathic behavior to financially and emotionally harm him, a longstanding and well documented pattern of behavior that she has engaged in throughout her romantic life with past lovers.  In Louie’s suit filed following her suit, Louie talks about what happened when they were in Massachusetts following an argument, Louie says she gave him back the engagement ring, claiming, as she did in May 2019, that she was not going to marry Louie without him giving her money. Louie says he was not going to fall for her extortion again and told her he was going to leave the hotel and go home. He offered to drive home with her but asked her to stay elsewhere that evening as he wanted to discuss the breakup with his sons without her present. Louie says she refused to come with him or stay elsewhere so he drove away. Louie then called the police and alerted them to the situation as he did not want to be in an altercation with her in case she showed up to his house. After driving off, several hours later, the ex-girlfriends son calls Louie and says that Vanessa wanted to be picked up at the hotel. He turned around to find her and 90 minutes later, Vanessa’s son called again and said she found a ride. He says when he returned home – Vanessa was already in the driveway of his house, waiting to take items out. And that Vanessa put her son up to calling him simply to waste his time. More From Bravo Ducking Bravo: Text From October 30,2019 Texts Set Of 2 Of 3 Text Set 3 Of 3 According to additional court documents, Vanessa allegedly tried to imposter a Facebook account, controlling Louie Ruelas Facebook account without his knowledge. Louie Ruelas was said to find out about it when IT came to his house and looked through his computer. From Court Documents: Facebook Account Karen Davis Remax Additional Court Documents From Court Documents More from the case via Bravo Ducking Bravo First Person Letter Evidence Submitted Here’S What Louie Alleges Louie Alleged That Louie Previously Submitted Louie Also Asserts For the last few years Vanessa Reiser has made the world believe Louie Ruelas is a narcissist. So what exactly is a Narcissist? Narcissistic personality disorder involves a pattern of self-centered, arrogant thinking and behavior, a lack of empathy and consideration for other people, and an excessive need for admiration. Others often describe people with NPD as cocky, manipulative, selfish, patronizing, and demanding. This way of thinking and behaving surfaces in every area of the narcissist’s life: from work and friendships to family and love relationships. People with narcissistic personality disorder are extremely resistant to changing their behavior, even when it’s causing them problems. Their tendency is to turn the blame on to others. What’s more, they are extremely sensitive and react badly to even the slightest criticisms, disagreements, or perceived slights, which they view as personal attacks. For the people in the narcissist’s life, it’s often easier just to go along with their demands to avoid the coldness and rages. HelpGuide The following documents are letters written from Vanessa Reiser displaying narcissistic traits and verbally abusing Louie Ruelas The Letter Louis Alleged Page 2 Of 3 That Louie Alleges Vanessa Wrote After Provincetown We are told from former friends of Vanessa Reiser that Vanessa hated Louie Ruelas ex-fiancee Paula, and would talk about her obsessively but reached out to her when she and Louie broke up so that they could essentially “frame him.” Our sources say she reached out to Paula one time prior to ask about her ring. This is still an ongoing case but in 2021 a Judge ordered that Louie keeps the office computer after it wipes off her info and that Vanessa keeps her website/business, pays Louie 20k, keeps the remaining funds in her account and that neither will lie about the other, make derogatory statements about the other, harass the other. Something Vanessa has failed to follow. Vanessa Reiser has now given herself the title of a Narcissism expert and calls herself a “solution-focused “psychotherapist offering sessions despite her history. She even recently move to New Jersey with sources telling us, “she is trying to get on the show. It would be a dream come true if she was cast.” That’s not all – we recently got insight by multiple AllAboutTRH readers that Vanessa Reiser would go into the social chat app clubhouse on Dave Quinn’s club and would always speak in the room. Solution-Focused Vanessa recently made headlines after she alleged that one of her patients were actually hired to “spy” on her by Louie Ruelas. She filed a restraining order against him despite being the one who is talking about him daily and contacting anyone affiliated with Teresa Giudice. Prior to providing the restraining order to Page Six, Vanessa Reiser called former RHONJ friend of, Kim D and told her that she was going to be putting a story out there and to spread the word. Not something a normal victim of abuse would do. Vanessa Reiser Posing As She Runs In Wedding Dress to Raise Awareness for Narcissistic Domestic Abuse Vanessa Reiser is allegedly behind the video leaks of Louie Ruelas and she mostly engages on Melissa Gorga, Melissa Gorgas sisters Lysa Simpson and Kim as well as Teresa Giudice’s brother Joe Gorgas Instagram account commenting on each post. She also comments on Melissa and Joe’s daughter Antonia’s Instagram account. Melissa’s sisters will comment back on her page and are following her as well. Vanessa Reiser Vanessa Reiser has also developed a close relationship with Kim D after spilling tea on Louie Ruelas. She smiled as she walked Kim D’s recent fashion show. Vanessa Reiser is a mom of one who spends her days raising awareness for narcissistic abuse despite it being clear she has a history of narcissistic traits with her ex-partners. She has an RHONJ highlight on her Instagram page and continues to befriend anyone who isn’t a fan of Louie Ruelas and Teresa Giudice. Thoughts on the truth about Vanessa Reiser? Who is Louie Ruelas and what is the story about his ex-girlfriend? Louie Ruelas is a public figure, and the story revolves around his past relationship with an ex-girlfriend. It delves into allegations of stalking and other concerning behavior. Is the information about Louie Ruelas' ex-girlfriend verified and credible? As a responsible blogging website, we strive to provide accurate information. We have taken steps to verify the claims made about Louie Ruelas’ ex-girlfriend to ensure credibility. What actions were taken in response to the alleged stalking and concerning behavior? Our blog post may outline any legal actions, statements, or responses from Louie Ruelas or his ex-girlfriend regarding the situation. ---