Kelly Dodd Accuses Heather and Terry Dubrow of Having a “Lavender Marriage”

Kelly Dodd ignited fresh controversy involving Heather Dubrow and her husband, Terry Dubrow, after weighing in on long-standing rumors about his sexuality with a shocking Instagram comment.

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The drama unfolded after speculation resurfaced claiming that Terry, a well-known plastic surgeon and reality TV personality, is gay. During a recent episode of the Between Us podcast, which Terry co-hosts with his wife, The Real Housewives of Orange County star The Real Housewives of Orange County Heather Dubrow, Terry addressed the rumor head-on.

“What’s the latest rumor? I’m gay, right?” Terry asked on the podcast.

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Kelly Dodd soon entered the conversation in the comments section of an Instagram post sharing the clip, making a claim that immediately raised eyebrows.

Kelly wrote, “Lisa her best friend told me he was gay his brother was gay their whole family is gay. It’s hereditary. It’s OK they have a lavender marriage. Just like Kelly Preston and John Travolta it’s fine.”

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Prior to Kelly’s comment, Heather said the rumors we’re stupid.

“It’s just so stupid. Why would we live like that? Why would we hide that?”

Terry also explained why he believes the rumor makes no sense, especially considering how openly he and Heather live their lives in the public eye.

Kelly, however, doesn’t seem to believe that, drawing a comparison to another Bravo couple.

“He will never satisfy her just like Kyle Richards,” she wrote.

Fans of The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills immediately recognized the reference. During a now-infamous moment on the show, psychic Allison DuBois once told Kyle Richards about her then-husband, “he will never emotionally fulfill you,” a line that has followed Kyle ever since her eventual separation.

Neither Heather nor Terry has responded further to Kelly’s remarks beyond their initial reactions, but the comments have once again put their marriage under a harsh Bravo spotlight.

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33 comments

Eric Jones January 1, 2026 - 8:44 pm
Kelly needs to be put down. Like a deranged rabid dog. How pathetic to be so obsessed with her old coworkers from a job she was fired from YEARS AGO. Also, her husband seems very feminine too so... why throw stones?
Steve December 23, 2025 - 11:22 am
No doubt the rumors about Terry have resurfaced now as a marketing ploy to boost interest in the coming season. Still, maybe Terry and his boy toy can double date with Kyle and her girl toy. That would boost both the OC and the BH franchise.
NikkiJax December 23, 2025 - 10:51 am
Kelly is a bad mother so who cares what she speculates!
BC December 22, 2025 - 7:38 pm
Kelly is a vile creature, she really is. Nobody cares about you Kelly, your time is up! But having said that, my gaydar has always been triggered by Terry. But who cares, it's their marriage and their business. Sexuality is a spectrum.
NikkiJax December 23, 2025 - 10:54 am
I don't think he's gay. They have no problem announcing their kids are gay so why would they hide him being gay??
BC December 23, 2025 - 4:46 pm
It's different when it's you. They would have been on their own journey with this, and it's harder to admit after so long being the straight couple
NikkiJax December 24, 2025 - 9:48 am
He's not gay period.
BC December 24, 2025 - 4:41 pm
Oh ok, you definitely know that for sure, I can tell you know it all. Whatever lovvey
NikkiJax December 25, 2025 - 9:50 am
You don't know either but you insist on it lovvey.
BC December 25, 2025 - 4:02 pm
Where did I "insist"? All I said was, and I quote "my gaydar is triggered...but who cares". Might need to work on your reading and comprehension.
BC December 25, 2025 - 4:02 pm
Where did I "insist"? All I said was, and I quote "my gaydar is triggered...but who cares". Might need to work on your reading and comprehension.
NikkiJax December 26, 2025 - 10:26 am
Look who's talking, lol
NikkiJax December 26, 2025 - 10:26 am
Look who's talking, lol
NikkiJax December 25, 2025 - 9:50 am
You don't know either but you insist on it lovvey.
NikkiJax December 24, 2025 - 9:48 am
He's not gay period.
BC December 23, 2025 - 4:46 pm
It's different when it's you. They would have been on their own journey with this, and it's harder to admit after so long being the straight couple
Evil Queen December 22, 2025 - 12:48 pm
I have never heard of a “ Lavender marriage.” I’m not saying Kelly is right on this subject but she has been right on the other Dubrow gossip.
Zap It December 22, 2025 - 1:44 pm
Off topic but I love the word Lavender...so pretty.
Zap It December 22, 2025 - 1:44 pm
Off topic but I love the word Lavender...so pretty.
Jennifer December 22, 2025 - 5:14 pm
Kelly is spiraling again. She says cruel things about Heather, Shannon, Emily and Gina yet they are all spending the holidays with their kids and families. Ask Kelly and Rick which family members they are spending the holidays with....or even speak to. She needs to shut her loud mouth and mind her own business.
Jennifer December 22, 2025 - 5:14 pm
Kelly is spiraling again. She says cruel things about Heather, Shannon, Emily and Gina yet they are all spending the holidays with their kids and families. Ask Kelly and Rick which family members they are spending the holidays with....or even speak to. She needs to shut her loud mouth and mind her own business.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark December 22, 2025 - 3:01 pm
Considering OC is currently casting, I'm questioning not only the story (which the rumored Fancy Man and Fancy Pants concocted themselves on their own podcast), but also the timing. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4290c8cf18332a161258d3c5e73af9de4710b219d0eb5aca8ed7c619f21dabab.png
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark December 22, 2025 - 3:01 pm
Considering OC is currently casting, I'm questioning not only the story (which the rumored Fancy Man and Fancy Pants concocted themselves on their own podcast), but also the timing. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4290c8cf18332a161258d3c5e73af9de4710b219d0eb5aca8ed7c619f21dabab.png
Evil Queen December 22, 2025 - 10:45 pm
That’s a blast from the past. ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark December 23, 2025 - 5:45 am
I've been referring to myself as a "Fancy Man" ever since. I still prefer it over "gay" which for me has always had political/militant connotations.
Champagne Hangover December 22, 2025 - 10:57 am
Meh, nothing would surprise me, BUT if Terry is gay, is Fancy Pants asexual or does she have LOVAHS on the side? ? Lol! ? I don’t think Terry is gay cuz I think when you got EFF YOU money like the Dubrows do, you have a sh*t ton MORE freedom to be who you wanna be, not less…ya know? Cuz is anyone gonna really care if their plastic surgeon is gay? I mean, if you think about it, it’s somewhat akin to having a gay hairdresser or makeup artist, so I’m going with a resounding no.???? Even that aside, Kelly herself said Terry had an ongoing affair with some broad who worked for him in the past, no? So, which is it? ? I believe the willy slinging rumors about Terry but I think it was just with a chick. Now did dude ever get drunk enough to experiment (a la Mo) with a chick with a d*ck (ALLEGEDLY?)? It wouldn’t surprise me in the least, but even Mo is hoin’ around with (what appears to be ????) exclusively broads. So, dude may be, like, 95% straight and 5% not quite right in the head/ bi-curious under certain circumstances but full on gay? Mmm, not buying it. ?
Champagne Hangover December 22, 2025 - 10:57 am
Meh, nothing would surprise me, BUT if Terry is gay, is Fancy Pants asexual or does she have LOVAHS on the side? ? Lol! ? I don’t think Terry is gay cuz I think when you got EFF YOU money like the Dubrows do, you have a sh*t ton MORE freedom to be who you wanna be, not less…ya know? Cuz is anyone gonna really care if their plastic surgeon is gay? I mean, if you think about it, it’s somewhat akin to having a gay hairdresser or makeup artist, so I’m going with a resounding no.???? Even that aside, Kelly herself said Terry had an ongoing affair with some broad who worked for him in the past, no? So, which is it? ? I believe the willy slinging rumors about Terry but I think it was just with a chick. Now did dude ever get drunk enough to experiment (a la Mo) with a chick with a d*ck (ALLEGEDLY?)? It wouldn’t surprise me in the least, but even Mo is hoin’ around with (what appears to be ????) exclusively broads. So, dude may be, like, 95% straight and 5% not quite right in the head/ bi-curious under certain circumstances but full on gay? Mmm, not buying it. ?
Zap It December 22, 2025 - 11:49 am
IDK...it might explain the situation with their three out of four children.
Zap It December 22, 2025 - 11:58 am
IDK...it might explain the situation with the majority of their children.
Champagne Hangover December 22, 2025 - 1:10 pm
True dat. ????
Champagne Hangover December 22, 2025 - 1:10 pm
True dat. ????
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark December 22, 2025 - 3:58 pm
Hmm ... interesting theory. While we don't know the exact cause of sexual orientation, they theorize that it is caused by a complex interplay of genetic, hormonal, and environmental influences.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark December 22, 2025 - 3:58 pm
Hmm ... interesting theory. While we don't know the exact cause of sexual orientation, they theorize that it is caused by a complex interplay of genetic, hormonal, and environmental influences.
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