Alexis Bellino Accuses Gretchen Rossi’s Cyber Analyst of Being “Slade’s Friend,” Claims Report Isn’t Credible, Gretchen Fires Back: “Sit Down Clown”

The Real Housewives of Orange County reunion may have ended, but the drama is still exploding off-screen. Alexis Bellino is now casting major doubt on the cyber findings Gretchen Rossi presented during the taping, and Gretchen is not having it.

Alexis Bellino Accuses Gretchen Rossi’s Cyber Analyst of Being “Slade’s Friend,” Claims Report Isn’t Credible, Gretchen Fires Back: “Sit Down Clown” 3

During the reunion, Tamra Judge confronted Gretchen with screenshots of alleged homophobic posts that Gretchen had supposedly “liked.” Gretchen countered by revealing that a cyber analyst determined the most extreme post appeared to be created using “imaging software and AI,” and she claimed Tamra was linked to the hate accounts.

Now, Alexis is publicly questioning the legitimacy of that cyber report.

Speaking on Reality with The King, Alexis said she went full investigative mode, joking that she felt like Dateline NBC as she dug into what she calls the “facts.”

“Did you see what came out about the guy that wrote that cyber analysis? He is Slade’s friend, he was on Slade’s podcast five years ago, not very credible, and everyone that’s hearing this is saying Tamra should sue him,” Alexis alleged. She went on to argue that the technical claims in the report didn’t add up.

“A PI could not hack Instagram, illegal, okay? Force Instagram to hand over your DMs? Instagram only complies with law enforcement and with a valid court order. There’s no way that they got that and [that] Gretchen spent thousands of dollars in that short of time, and that PI guy, had enough time to get the law enforcement involved and then access DMs through special software or PI tools. These don’t exist.”

Alexis then questioned how the analyst could have gathered any information at all. “How did he get his facts if he didn’t subpoena Instagram to get all of this, have a cop involved to get it?” she continued. “Anyone that believes that cyber analysis has a freaking IQ of a vegetable.”

But Gretchen isn’t letting those claims go unanswered.

In a November 24 Instagram post, she clapped back at Alexis’ accusations, hard.

“Alexis you sound like a fool. You’re talking about something you know nothing about & you clearly are not a very good investigator. ?,” Gretchen wrote. “The report that was brought forward at the reunion has nothing to do with the private investigator that was on our podcast many yrs ago. He came forward a few months ago only as a second source.”

Gretchen insisted the expert behind the reunion report had no connection to Slade whatsoever. “The report discussed at the reunion was done by a former CIA analyst (that is not Slade’s friend) and the parent company handles government contracts,” she explained. She added that the production team and network fully vetted the report: “The company had to sign a release authorizing its use at the reunion & production and the network are aware of who it is, which is not the private investigator you are claiming it is.”

Alexis Bellino Accuses Gretchen Rossi’s Cyber Analyst of Being “Slade’s Friend,” Claims Report Isn’t Credible, Gretchen Fires Back: “Sit Down Clown” 4

And then came the final blow. “This is a desperate attempt to involve yourself in something you clearly know nothing about & it makes you look pathetic. So sit down clown & stop thinking your Sherlock Holmes.”

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74 comments

Steve November 29, 2025 - 11:38 pm
"...sit down clown..." Someone should have said this to Alexis a long time ago.
meme November 26, 2025 - 7:44 am
"Sit down clown" ... Enough said ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 25, 2025 - 5:55 pm
I have no doubt whatsoever that Gretchen was busted, but she has every right to think and believe how she wants. Unfortunately for her, political affiliation is not a protected class, and Bravo/NBC/Universal has every right to employ only those who agree with them politically. See Exhibit A, B, C, and D: Kelly Dodd, Leeanne Locken, Jenny Nguyen, and Annemarie Wylie (just to name a few).
ontoiran November 25, 2025 - 1:25 pm
Slade and Tamra are both snakes, hope they have much success destroying each other.
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 2:01 pm
It will be interesting.
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 2:01 pm
It will be interesting.
RyNy83 November 25, 2025 - 12:47 pm
Team Alexis.
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 1:22 pm
Same and over Shannon as well.
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 6:11 pm
So sick of the "I am a funny, klutz act". She was acting when she "smoked" the weed. Its so forced. Its like Emily acting kooky. They self produce.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 25, 2025 - 6:34 pm
Shannon and Emily are MAGA, but too chickenshit to come out and say it. Heather is obviously a loon, but I can guarantee you that her "micro dosing" is all an act too. Don't even get me started on the "psychic" bullshit ... watching these Conservative Christian women selling their souls to keep their jobs is just sad.
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 6:11 pm
So sick of the "I am a funny, klutz act". She was acting when she "smoked" the weed. Its so forced. Its like Emily acting kooky. They self produce.
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:41 am
Lol. I thought that was Meghan Markle at first! ?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 3:57 pm
Hey now. ?/ ? In my defense, MM is about as black as I am and I’m so white, I’m practically transparent. ? but yeah, my eyesight ain’t great! ? Old wives tale or not, my contribution to T’giving this year are some balsamic garlic roasted carrots ? for ERBODY’s eyeballs. I’ve actually read several times that it’s actually true that carrots are good for the eyes. ????
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 26, 2025 - 4:22 pm
Yum, I love carrots and balsamic ... never thought of putting the two together. Funny you mention eyes, mine haven't stopped burning and watering for two days now, it's driving me nuts. The strange blistery rash has returned to my scalp as well (I had it all Summer but it went away for several weeks). I'm beginning to get worried. I guess it's time to make an appointment. But of course I could be dead by the time I can get in.
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 6:02 pm
It’s pretty good if you like carrots. I mix a good quality olive oil, a drizzle of (real) honey, balsamic vinegar a bunch of cloves of garlic toss it all together and roast them (375 for 15ish minutes), and DONE. You can get fancy and add rosemary or thyme, but I just keep it simple. It’s a very simple side dish, couldn’t be easier to make and SO good for you. The roasted garlic gets so mellow and soft it’s almost like garlic roasted mashed potatoes ?? if you like garlic, that is. Yeah, I hear ya re: doctor’s appointments. I try to do EVERYTHING I can to avoid doctors these days cuz ya can’t always trust those bastids, ? but they’re like police in that way: you can hate ‘em all you want…til you need ‘em. Life ain’t fair… ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 27, 2025 - 2:18 am
Carrots roasted in 15 mins ... aren't they still rather crunchy? Like any self-respecting Italian, I live for garlic (especially roasted) and could put it (with mushrooms and onion) on just about anything, but not a fan of garlic mashed potatoes. So you aren't cooking for the brood?
Champagne Hangover November 27, 2025 - 8:20 am
Yeah, they’re still crunchy @ 15 minutes so if you want softer, more like 20ish + I reckon. ???? I don’t do the heavy lifting re: cooking on the holidays but try to contribute something (that I won’t eff up ?). These carrots and garlic are pretty easy. So that’s the contribution this year. If I try to get too fancy the chances are AT LEAST 50/50 I’ll eff it up! ?/?. Anyway, Happy T’giving, Niggy!
Champagne Hangover November 27, 2025 - 8:20 am
Yeah, they’re still crunchy @ 15 minutes so if you want softer, more like 20ish + I reckon. ???? I don’t do the heavy lifting re: cooking on the holidays but try to contribute something (that I won’t eff up ?). These carrots and garlic are pretty easy. So that’s the contribution this year. If I try to get too fancy the chances are AT LEAST 50/50 I’ll eff it up! ?/?. Anyway, Happy T’giving, Niggy!
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 27, 2025 - 3:06 pm
Same to you. If the real truth be told, Thanksgiving and the holidays in general aren't the same for me anymore; not since the passing of my parents and other elders in the fambly. But with the help of a few Bloody Mary's, I'll go thru the motions.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 27, 2025 - 3:06 pm
Same to you. If the real truth be told, Thanksgiving and the holidays in general aren't the same for me anymore; not since the passing of my parents and other elders in the fambly. But with the help of a few Bloody Mary's, I'll go thru the motions.
Champagne Hangover November 27, 2025 - 6:39 pm
Yeah, I think for most peeps it’s kinda going through the motions. But the silver lining is (as thin as that lining may be), you can make of the holidays whatever you want, even if it’s just a day off to just chill or whatevs. I have done that myself and for the most part, enjoyed it cuz I just did, ate, watched what I wanted when I wanted. That’s kinda my thing anyway. Tomayto/ Tomahto ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 28, 2025 - 5:45 pm
Now the day after(Fri), I actually had the best time I've had in years. Now if I could only get my personal life together. I know what I need to, it's just a matter of finally doing it.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 28, 2025 - 5:45 pm
Now the day after(Fri), I actually had the best time I've had in years. Now if I could only get my personal life together. I know what I need to, it's just a matter of finally doing it.
Champagne Hangover November 27, 2025 - 6:39 pm
Yeah, I think for most peeps it’s kinda going through the motions. But the silver lining is (as thin as that lining may be), you can make of the holidays whatever you want, even if it’s just a day off to just chill or whatevs. I have done that myself and for the most part, enjoyed it cuz I just did, ate, watched what I wanted when I wanted. That’s kinda my thing anyway. Tomayto/ Tomahto ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 27, 2025 - 2:18 am
Carrots roasted in 15 mins ... aren't they still rather crunchy? Like any self-respecting Italian, I live for garlic (especially roasted) and could put it (with mushrooms and onion) on just about anything, but not a fan of garlic mashed potatoes. So you aren't cooking for the brood?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 6:02 pm
It’s pretty good if you like carrots. I mix a good quality olive oil, a drizzle of (real) honey, balsamic vinegar a bunch of cloves of garlic toss it all together and roast them (375 for 15ish minutes), and DONE. You can get fancy and add rosemary or thyme, but I just keep it simple. It’s a very simple side dish, couldn’t be easier to make and SO good for you. The roasted garlic gets so mellow and soft it’s almost like garlic roasted mashed potatoes ?? if you like garlic, that is. Yeah, I hear ya re: doctor’s appointments. I try to do EVERYTHING I can to avoid doctors these days cuz ya can’t always trust those bastids, ? but they’re like police in that way: you can hate ‘em all you want…til you need ‘em. Life ain’t fair… ?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 3:57 pm
Hey now. ?/ ? In my defense, MM is about as black as I am and I’m so white, I’m practically transparent. ? but yeah, my eyesight ain’t great! ? Old wives tale or not, my contribution to T’giving this year are some balsamic garlic roasted carrots ? for ERBODY’s eyeballs. I’ve actually read several times that it’s actually true that carrots are good for the eyes. ????
BC November 28, 2025 - 6:28 am
Me too!! Sounds wrong, but I'm so with Alexis on this.
BC November 28, 2025 - 6:28 am
Me too!! Sounds wrong, but I'm so with Alexis on this.
The Boogens November 25, 2025 - 12:24 pm
Wretched Gretchen is an untrustworthy fake Christian. She talks filth and then pretends to be Christlike, when we all know she's gross. She talks openly about her husband's penis. Gross. She's a Trumper, so we know she is both dumb and racist, like troll Champagne Hangover, who hates every housewife but trolls here because he/she is a lonely HAG.
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 1:24 pm
@champagnehangover:disqus you got a fan, boo! TDS season is here. Make sure to take 20 COVID boosters for a cure.
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 2:07 pm
WTH was that? ? The person you're responding to has me blocked so I can't reply but I will say you handled this very well. I wouldn't be so gracious. LOL
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 2:11 pm
I usually go to the bowels of hell with these weirdos. I am kinda tired this week. Did you see the comment? Here it is just in case: Wretched Gretchen is an untrustworthy fake Christian. She talks filth and then pretends to be Christlike, when we all know she's gross. She talks openly about her husband's penis. Gross. She's a Trumper, so we know she is both dumb and racist, like troll Champagne Hangover, who hates every housewife but trolls here because he/she is a lonely HAG.
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 2:19 pm
I had logged out and read it before leaving you a comment. Where the hell did that come from? We're all entitled to our opinions but that comment is off the charts. Total weirdo??
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 2:44 pm
I know. Leave it to a libtard to go completely off topic and unhinged...lol. Republicans live rent free in their minds. When Biden was the president, I never read a gossip article and then go full rant on the man or libtards. They are severely mentally ill. why block someone??? You can logoff and read the shit anyway, they are the dumbest people.
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 2:44 pm
I know. Leave it to a libtard to go completely off topic and unhinged...lol. Republicans live rent free in their minds. When Biden was the president, I never read a gossip article and then go full rant on the man or libtards. They are severely mentally ill. why block someone??? You can logoff and read the shit anyway, they are the dumbest people.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 25, 2025 - 6:19 pm
I used to think they were just informed and misguided, but now I believe they are just inherently stupid/damaged people. There's really no other way to put it. https://media1.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTg5OGZmOWM5enNtMmVsbDZieTBjdHRhbzM0c2ZwMXc0ZTBqaWVraXU5cmRpb2V1ciZlcD12MV9naWZzX3NlYXJjaCZjdD1n/5aiIGWfpxnGTNEhkSn/giphy-downsized-small.mp4
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:37 am
God sometimes gives the obstinately wicked over to their own devices permanently. When that is the case, ain’t NOTHING or NO ONE gonna reverse what God has decreed. This is explicit many times in scripture, both in the Old and New Testaments. Once God has determined it, not even the most heartfelt earnest prayer will do any good. He will not even hear such a prayer. Their fate is sealed. You can try all ya want to get through to them, but God instructs us once they have refused to move on. Shake the dust off our feet.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 26, 2025 - 4:44 pm
In short, we're at war ... but as usual our side doesn't know it, and I don't know how many more shootings/murders of Presidents, political pundits, cops, and now Nat'l Guardsmen it's going to take for us to wake up. Personally, I have a feeling it's about to hit the fan. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4d9ae7639e9c1fba507141191abdf9d8041855af9c243ae5121f2745b290c4f9.png
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 5:43 pm
Oh yeah! BIG TIME!!! ?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 5:43 pm
Oh yeah! BIG TIME!!! ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 26, 2025 - 4:44 pm
In short, we're at war ... but as usual our side doesn't know it, and I don't know how many more shootings/murders of Presidents, political pundits, cops, and now Nat'l Guardsmen it's going to take for us to wake up. Personally, I have a feeling it's about to hit the fan. https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/4d9ae7639e9c1fba507141191abdf9d8041855af9c243ae5121f2745b290c4f9.png
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 25, 2025 - 6:19 pm
I used to think they were just informed and misguided, but now I believe they are just inherently stupid/damaged people. There's really no other way to put it. https://media1.giphy.com/media/v1.Y2lkPTg5OGZmOWM5enNtMmVsbDZieTBjdHRhbzM0c2ZwMXc0ZTBqaWVraXU5cmRpb2V1ciZlcD12MV9naWZzX3NlYXJjaCZjdD1n/5aiIGWfpxnGTNEhkSn/giphy-downsized-small.mp4
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 3:51 pm
?
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 4:17 pm
Pronouns blocked me ???
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:27 am
I agree! I only block spam AND STALKERS, both of which can F*CK OFF! ?
Good Hair November 26, 2025 - 10:34 am
Who stalks someone on a stupid blogger website.
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:38 am
The unhinged who are primarily made up of ungodly leftist freaks. ?
Good Hair November 26, 2025 - 10:34 am
Who stalks someone on a stupid blogger website.
Good Hair November 26, 2025 - 10:42 am
You know they have multiple emails and Disquis profiles. Fucking weirdo fucks.
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:57 am
Yup, exactly. And the truly sad and pathetic thing is, they think they’re being sneaky and clever! ? Bless their pointy little heads. ?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:57 am
Yup, exactly. And the truly sad and pathetic thing is, they think they’re being sneaky and clever! ? Bless their pointy little heads. ?
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:22 am
Lol! Pretty sure I know who this is, butt hurt cuz I blocked it due to its perpetual bunched panties and refusal of my kind and generous offer of butt hurt ointment. Oh well. I am, however, surprised due to this one’s apparent stalking proclivities that my gender was unclear to it. I’ll try to give it a lil’ hint…? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b183595e290fcaba384f11bd4af52237020ccc76d354acdbfd9d7d40dad7189.jpg
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:22 am
Lol! Pretty sure I know who this is, butt hurt cuz I blocked it due to its perpetual bunched panties and refusal of my kind and generous offer of butt hurt ointment. Oh well. I am, however, surprised due to this one’s apparent stalking proclivities that my gender was unclear to it. I’ll try to give it a lil’ hint…? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b183595e290fcaba384f11bd4af52237020ccc76d354acdbfd9d7d40dad7189.jpg
Good Hair November 26, 2025 - 10:34 am
My pronouns are I/Me
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:39 am
Exactly! But that probably in and of itself chaps asses and bunches panties cuz unhinged. ?
Good Hair November 26, 2025 - 10:41 am
Leave it to a whack job, libtard to stalk...be careful, these whackos are unhinged and take cheap shots. They don't even fight far. What a fucking loser. You know they/them is reading this. Come stalk me!
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 11:04 am
Lol. Oh, it’s reading it all right…spittle forming in the corners of a well foamed mouth, grievously bunched panties and a flourishing chapped ass festering in its mire of willful ignorance. ? It’s reading every word its double digit IQ will allow to fuel its futile rage. ???
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 11:04 am
Lol. Oh, it’s reading it all right…spittle forming in the corners of a well foamed mouth, grievously bunched panties and a flourishing chapped ass festering in its mire of willful ignorance. ? It’s reading every word its double digit IQ will allow to fuel its futile rage. ???
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:22 am
Lol! Pretty sure I know who this is, butt hurt cuz I blocked it due to its perpetual bunched panties and refusal of my kind and generous offer of butt hurt ointment. Oh well. I am, however, surprised due to this one’s apparent stalking proclivities that my gender was unclear to it. I’ll try to give it a lil’ hint…? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b183595e290fcaba384f11bd4af52237020ccc76d354acdbfd9d7d40dad7189.jpg
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:22 am
Lol! Pretty sure I know who this is, butt hurt cuz I blocked it due to its perpetual bunched panties and refusal of my kind and generous offer of butt hurt ointment. Oh well. I am, however, surprised due to this one’s apparent stalking proclivities that my gender was unclear to it. I’ll try to give it a lil’ hint…? https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/6b183595e290fcaba384f11bd4af52237020ccc76d354acdbfd9d7d40dad7189.jpg
Champagne Hangover November 26, 2025 - 10:25 am
I’ve offered it but hurt ointment on many occasions for its chapped ass and it’s bunched panties, but…? ???
Good Hair November 25, 2025 - 1:24 pm
@champagnehangover:disqus you got a fan, boo! TDS season is here. Make sure to take 20 COVID boosters for a cure.
The Boogens November 25, 2025 - 12:24 pm
Wretched Gretchen is an untrustworthy fake Christian. She talks filth and then pretends to be Christlike, when we all know she's gross. She talks openly about her husband's penis. Gross. She's a Trumper, so we know she is both dumb and racist, like troll Champagne Hangover, who hates every housewife but trolls here because he/she is a lonely HAG.
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 10:30 am
"So sit down Clown" is Slade speaking. He's all over this. I actually think that Gretchen is a nice person for the most part but Slade is a douche and he controls Gretchen. The cyber findings are BS as was that stupid phone call in the finale. Slade, Slade, Slade. JMO. ?
Zap It November 25, 2025 - 10:30 am
"So sit down Clown" is Slade speaking. He's all over this. I actually think that Gretchen is a nice person for the most part but Slade is a douche and he controls Gretchen. The cyber findings are BS as was that stupid phone call in the finale. Slade, Slade, Slade. JMO. ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark November 26, 2025 - 4:32 pm
I'm disappointed that Gretchen isn't just owning it, but with Bravo being (their) livelihoods, I guess they can't. I'd love to see Gretchen tell Heather (and JJ) that it's her right to NOT agree with butchering their children (but we all know someone who would!). https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/b220ec4775f36f5cbae2d209386c41b59b1bfeed7ffe385959af8c2258e96f07.png
BC November 28, 2025 - 6:28 am
Agree!
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