Denise Richards Breaks Down in Tears, Says Ex Aaron Phypers ‘Almost Killed Me So Many Damn Times’

Denise Richards, known for her roles in Hollywood and as a star of Real Housewives of Beverly Hills, recently opened up about her harrowing experience with estranged husband Aaron Phypers during a highly emotional court testimony.

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Richards, who was granted a temporary restraining order against Phypers on July 17, broke down on the stand as she recounted the “manic” behavior and alleged abuse she endured throughout their relationship. Her statements revealed a stark contrast between her past marriage to Charlie Sheen and her turbulent life with Phypers.

In a powerful video message presented in court, Richards confronted Phypers directly:
“You were the last person I thought would do that to me. I don’t know why I’m having a hard time with this. Things were bad with Charlie and I, but he never hit below the belt.”

She expressed deep heartbreak and disbelief over the breakdown of their marriage:
“I told my dad, I just don’t know why I believed you and I loved you and I really thought you were my soulmate. I never in a million years thought we were getting divorced.”

Richards also denied allegations of infidelity while accusing Phypers of cheating. She said,
“You can claim I cheated, but I didn’t. You did do stuff. And I don’t care how long ago it was. The fights were so f—ing bad, especially after your family moved [into their shared home]. I tried my best to not have it be as bad as it was. I tried my hardest. I just could not do that s—show anymore.”

The reality TV star detailed the physical abuse she allegedly suffered, calling out Phypers for what she described as escalating violence:
“Aside from hitting me as much as you did and filing a police report … claiming that I hit you in the chest three times and scratched your eye. Like come on. Low blow. And I get you’re upset that I filed the restraining order, but you hit me one too many f—ing times. Each time was getting worse and worse it was. You were manic.”

She expressed profound betrayal, saying,
“You were the one person that I always thought I could trust and that would protect me, and you were the f—ing opposite. I think I’m having such a hard time because I was married to someone I never f—ing knew.”

Richards also revealed her disappointment in Phypers and his family’s lack of support during their separation:
“The last six months when you didn’t stand up for me, I was like ‘OK.’ You filed, I didn’t. I told your mom, but they don’t even give a s—. They’re still [living in our home]. Of course, they are. Anyway, you f—ing hurt my heart.”

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Reflecting on their marriage and the man she thought she knew, she said,
“One day you’re going to look back and say, ‘Yeah, she was a Bond girl. I was married to her, and she supported my business and everything else.’ In your heart you know, or maybe you won’t. Maybe you’re too much of a narcissist.”

Richards compared her experience with Phypers to her previous marriage with Charlie Sheen:
“I don’t know you, maybe that’s why I’m having such a hard time. Charlie – I knew. Every other ex – I knew. That’s what’s been really hard. I don’t even know who the f— you are.”

Phypers filed for divorce on July 7, citing irreconcilable differences and seeking spousal support from Richards. This court drama highlights the painful and complex reality behind the headlines in the life of the Real Housewives star.

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24 comments

RyNy83 October 8, 2025 - 4:32 pm
I hope he gets nothing out of this divorce. He def doesn't deserve spousal support, she is the one with all these kids.
Steve October 8, 2025 - 4:08 pm
I wonder who wrote THAT script for her. And given that it was "video" testimony, one wonders how many "takes" were filmed and then edited to get it right.
michers October 8, 2025 - 4:08 pm
Really Denise ? I find that hard to believe . You left Charlie for less . You could’ve not married him , you had choices .
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark October 8, 2025 - 4:31 pm
I suspect that if the real truth be told, she was/is into drugs just as heavily as Charlie; it just never caught up with her to the same extent. Denise Fcking Richards has been a wild thing and part of the Motley Crew with Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson, Heather Locklear, Richie Sambora, and Brooke and Charlie long before she even married him.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark October 8, 2025 - 4:31 pm
I suspect that if the real truth be told, she was/is into drugs just as heavily as Charlie; it just never caught up with her to the same extent. Denise Fcking Richards has been a wild thing and part of the notorious "Motley Crew" crowd along with Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson, Heather Locklear, Richie Sambora, and Brooke and Charlie long before she even married him.
EL October 8, 2025 - 11:53 am
She looks and sounds like a mess. Why did she bring up being a Bond Girl? That was odd. I feel like she’s lying about the affair but I do believe Aaron was abusive and manic but I think she can be too? That being said, I tend to believe her more than him on some things.
Copacop October 8, 2025 - 3:22 pm
I think he had to have said something about her being Bond girl before... Like I cant believe Im with an actual Bond girl... So she wanted to remind him...
Copacop October 8, 2025 - 3:22 pm
I think he had to have said something about her being Bond girl before... Like I cant believe Im with an actual Bond girl... So she wanted to remind him...
Zap It October 8, 2025 - 11:23 am
If true and it does sound like it, this guy is a monster. I feel for Denise's daughters especially Eloise. I would be terrified that he'd go after one of my daughters. I can't imagine what Eloise saw and how she felt.
Champagne Hangover October 8, 2025 - 11:57 am
And yet HE filed for divorce. ? Hmmm… ????
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark October 8, 2025 - 3:56 pm
Exactly ... that's key for me, and ultimately doesn't bode well for her. If even half of her claims are true, then why the hell would SHE not be the first to file, and then hop on a flight to Tahiti until the dust settled. It's not gelling.
Champagne Hangover October 8, 2025 - 4:32 pm
Yes, she was in no way, shape or form dependent on him. She was CLEARLY having an affair. She had money to flee with her daughter and hire security to keep him away indefinitely. She did NONE of that. Why? I think this is more of a Johnny Depp/ Amber Heard sitch where BOTH were abusive to each other cuz otherwise, why would Denise show up where he’s living to collect 13 dogs in a Corvette no less ? and aggressively get in the face of the brother of her abuser, an abuser that claims she’s so deathly afraid of? ? I wouldn’t be getting in the face of my abuser’s sibling, would you? ? So much doesn’t pass the sniff test. ?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark October 8, 2025 - 8:24 pm
In a perfect world, a judge would grant them a quickie divorce, and send them both on their merry separate ways, but with the (foolish) lack of a prenup and CA being a "community property state" (meaning the spouse gets HALF of monies/assets earned during the marriage), it would appear that Denise Fcking Richards is basically fcked. I predict he ends up with at least a few mill.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark October 8, 2025 - 8:24 pm
In a perfect world, a judge would grant them a quickie divorce, and send them both on their merry separate ways, but with the (foolish) lack of a prenup and CA being a "community property state" (meaning the spouse gets HALF of monies/assets earned during the marriage), it would appear that Denise Fcking Richards is basically fcked. I predict he ends up with at least a few mill.
Champagne Hangover October 9, 2025 - 8:48 am
It is what it is. ? Whatever he is legally entitled to, so be it. If Denise sees fit to add some ‘stfu and go away’ dollars to that I wouldn’t blame her cuz Aaron be spillin’ ALL her dirt ? (and yes, I believe there’s likely STILL MORE to spill ?). That said, fair or unfair, like it or not, there’s PLENTY of FAFO to go around here…not just for Aaron but for Denise F*cking Richards too. ?That’s just how that cookie is gonna crumble. ?
Zap It October 9, 2025 - 9:45 am
I admit I just scanned this article. I was really commenting on the testimony his cousin gave at the hearing. If true, it was brutal.
Champagne Hangover October 9, 2025 - 10:27 am
Yep, and THAT is damning testimony indeed. I do think this was an abusive relationship, likely to some degree on BOTH sides, but I think Aaron took it to the next level AT LEAST once cuz we now have THREE conflicting explanations for that black eye. ? And why would his cousin lie? I’m not saying it’s utterly impossible, but I do find it HIGHLY unlikely. That said, Denise needs to stick to what is verifiable. This nonsense about him using his own equipment to verify a concussion he supposedly gave her erodes her credibility which ain’t exactly golden coming out of the gate. IJS. Still, this douche needs to take his settlement and go TF away. ?
Zap It October 9, 2025 - 10:50 am
I think this whole thing has damaged both of their reputations. His worse, but Denise isn't coming out of this the way she went in.
Zap It October 9, 2025 - 10:50 am
I think this whole thing has damaged both of their reputations. His worse, but Denise isn't coming out of this the way she went in.
Champagne Hangover October 9, 2025 - 11:26 am
Exactly! And he has apparently submitted screenshots of his call log which demonstrate dozens of calls from HER to HIM after the restraining order was in effect and which he did not answer. If true, that and her stunt of showing up to collect her 13 dogs (in a Corvette no less) after the TRO and supposedly with a Bravo camera crew in tow is enough to cast some serious doubt on her claim of being afraid of him at the least, if not her overall credibility circling the drain along with his. ?
Zap It October 9, 2025 - 9:45 am
I admit I just scanned this article. I was really commenting on the testimony his cousin gave at the hearing. If true, it was brutal.
SU October 8, 2025 - 3:13 pm
These two are the poster children for the saying "two wrongs don't make a right".
SU October 8, 2025 - 3:13 pm
These two are the poster children for the saying "two wrongs don't make a right".
Champagne Hangover October 8, 2025 - 9:47 am
Sheesh! She did herself no favors here, sorry not sorry. That said, the black eye (that Aaron gave at least TWO conflicting and sketchy explanations for) still speaks VOLUMES. ? However, I couldn’t help but to notice how even Denise (inadvertently?) conceded that this toxic and abusive union cut both ways in that APPARENTLY police reports either confirm abuse on her part alone or in addition to police reports that she inexplicably did not reference which would ostensibly confirm that of his. ? For me, the math STILL aint ? mathing BUT it’s mathing enough for me re: that black eye. ? THAT is where this douche has yet to find a hole through which to slither, despite Denise flagrantly lying about her infidelity whether or not it was eclipsed by his (which I wouldn’t doubt for a second but unlike Denise, Aaron brought receipts ?). Messy, messy, messy…but Aaron deserves precious little if anything from this union regardless. So… https://uploads.disquscdn.com/images/2f7ca3458dfdecca3b14b82c5b073e43491fd99b87bae5a873bcc8829678f6dd.gif
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