Gretchen Rossi Says She Was Protecting Tamra Judge

In the latest episode of The Real Housewives of Orange County, Tamra Judge and Gretchen Rossi found themselves revisiting a story from the past during a sleepover with Heather Dubrow and Emily Simpson. Gretchen revealed details about a recording session Tamra participated in years ago with an unnamed musician, sparking renewed speculation.

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Tamra responded to the resurfaced rumors during the episode and again on the RHOC After Show, addressing both the recording and the allegations about her relationship with the musician.

The session took place “like, 15 years ago,” Tamra estimated, recalling that it happened “right after” she separated from ex Simon Barney and had “just started dating” her current husband, Eddie Judge.

“I think it was a recording studio, like, within a house,” Tamra explained on the RHOC episode. “We were hanging out at this house, drinking. … We were joking around. We were messing around, just singing songs on the thing. But I don’t know who would’ve gotten it, how they would’ve gotten it. I don’t even have it.”

While the recording itself raised some eyebrows, Tamra was more concerned about the rumors that followed. Gretchen and her partner Slade Smiley claimed to have a copy of the song, and more controversially, they alleged Tamra had a romantic relationship with the musician involved.

Slade took the gossip further during a FaceTime call with Heather and Emily, claiming he’d heard audio of Tamra’s alleged “tryst” with the artist in the studio.

Tamra firmly denied the suggestion of any romantic involvement. “If I wanted to hook up with him, I could’ve,” she stated on the RHOC After Show. “Not that it was… being asked or anything. … We didn’t have that relationship. Our kids went to school together.”

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In fact, Tamra said she is still “friends” with the “boy bander” today, dispelling any ongoing rumors.

The topic originally came up while Gretchen was sharing her own music career stories in a lighthearted moment with Heather and Emily. She explained that she brought up Tamra’s song partly to highlight what she sees as a double standard.

“Tamra has gone out so many times in the press and said Housewives should not sing,” Gretchen said on the After Show. “And so, it’s just always made me kinda giggle, because I’ve always known about this, like, song that she went into the studio and tried to sing herself where she sounded like a drowned rat.”

Despite being the first to suggest the rumored romantic involvement, Gretchen maintained that she never intended for the other women to find out that Slade had allegedly heard a recording of Tamra’s “extracurricular activities” in the studio.

“I didn’t want it to be about the story that was talked about back in 2010,” Gretchen added.

She even felt she was protecting Tamra by refusing to play the recording for her castmates, despite their curiosity.

“Both Emily and Heather wanted to hear that recording of her singing so badly,” Gretchen revealed. “In a weird way, I almost was, like, protecting Tamra because I was the one that said … ‘I’m not gonna play it.’”

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16 comments

AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 27, 2025 - 2:34 pm
I don;t care about 15 yrs. ago. The bigger revelation for me is that she and Eddie were having an affair (although we know that she and Simon's relationship was already in the toilet). Back to Gretchen, from where I'm sitting, their beef(s) never seemed that serious ... at least nothing that they can't overcome.
michers September 27, 2025 - 12:06 pm
Two things can be true ; gretchers is flopping and Tamra is still absurd . The baptism, the Jesus , the blaming everything on Simon years ago , the blaming Teddi’a cancer, the verbal diarrhea of it all - like just STOP
Steve September 26, 2025 - 2:41 pm
Why not play the song? Even if her singing is bad, it is no big thing. And second, if Gretchen is trying to protect Tamra, why bring this up at all -- much less talking abut her tryst with this younger guy. And third, why does Tamra care about any of this if it was all so many years ago? Over the ears she has shown herself to be a much more dastardly person that having sex with another man would make her. A one-time or short term affair is the least of the evil she has done and likely will continue to do.
Steve September 26, 2025 - 2:41 pm
Why not play the song? Even if her singing is bad, it is no big thing. And second, if Gretchen is trying to protect Tamra, why bring this up at all -- much less talking abut her tryst with this younger guy. And third, why does Tamra care about any of this if it was all so many years ago? Over the ears she has shown herself to be a much more dastardly person that having sex with another man would make her. A one-time or short term affair is the least of the evil she has done and likely will continue to do.
Evil Queen September 26, 2025 - 12:31 pm
Unless Gretchen is going to play the song and name the boy Tamara screwed this story can go away. Emily is two-faced and that is not a good look.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 27, 2025 - 2:44 pm
Zap It September 29, 2025 - 11:11 am
Perfect...this chronic mouth pout or whatever you call it is so annoying.
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark September 29, 2025 - 2:16 pm
... and Emily's got the personality to match.
Champagne Hangover September 29, 2025 - 2:25 pm
The styling choices on the right….NO BUENO!!!! ? Whoever told her she lost enough weight to expose that much flesh outside the bedroom or beach should have his/her tongue ripped out with some sort of medieval torture devise in a blood atonement ritual. I mean, does the woman have a mirror and a set of working eyeballs? ???? She looks Hulkalicious! ? No just no. ?
Zap It September 29, 2025 - 11:11 am
Two-faced? You're being kind.
Zap It September 29, 2025 - 11:11 am
Two-faced? You're being kind.
Evil Queen September 26, 2025 - 12:31 pm
Unless Gretchen is going to play the song and name the boy Tamara screwed this story can go away. Emily is two-faced and that is not a good look.
Rowan Smith September 26, 2025 - 10:19 am
Yikes! That third picture of Gretchen looks so unlike her !
NikkiJax September 26, 2025 - 11:39 am
She tries to claim she hasn't had any work done.
NikkiJax September 26, 2025 - 11:39 am
She tries to claim she hasn't had any work done.
Rowan Smith September 26, 2025 - 10:19 am
Yikes! That third picture of Gretchen looks so unlike her !
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