Tamra Judge Continues to Rehash Drama With Gretchen Rossi While Accusing Gretchen of Playing Victim

Tamra Judge is once again doing what she does best: deflecting.

Tamra Judge Continues to Rehash Drama With Gretchen Rossi While Accusing Gretchen of Playing Victim 3

In a recent interview with Extra, the Real Housewives of Orange County star accused Gretchen Rossi of “playing victim” and dredging up the past — but based on what we’ve seen, it sounds like Tamra’s the one stuck in rewind.

While Tamra insists she’s trying to move forward, her commentary paints a different picture. Instead of owning her part in the long-standing drama, she’s quick to point fingers, and Gretchen’s not having it.

“All she would do is talk about the past… and bring it up,” Tamra complained about Gretchen. “I said to her, from the get-go, I’m like, ‘I’m more than willing to move forward with you,’ and I really wanted to. I thought that we could, but all she wants to do is talk about the past and act like a victim and I’m just like, ‘I’m not doing this anymore.’”

Tamra Judge Continues to Rehash Drama With Gretchen Rossi While Accusing Gretchen of Playing Victim 4

But let’s be real, when someone refuses to acknowledge their role in the past, it’s pretty convenient to accuse the other person of being stuck in it.

Tamra went on to say, “Nothing good comes out of like rehashing old stuff and being stuck,” adding, “I don’t even know what I had for breakfast this morning. You want me to talk about what I did 15 years ago?”

Except… isn’t she the one rehashing it in every interview?

And of course, she topped it off with the ultimate Tamra-ism: “I’m like, stop playing victim. Move forward.”

Heather Dubrow, on the other hand, took a more balanced approach, saying, “I was very excited to have Gretchen back, and I thought she was a really good addition.” When asked about the tension, she added, “It’s always difficult when you’re in a friend group and these two have friction… you don’t want to start making teams and you know, dividing the group like that so it becomes complicated, how to navigate the friendships.”

In other words: Tamra’s not exactly making it easy.

Let’s be clear, Gretchen Rossi has every right to bring up the past if it hasn’t been resolved. That’s not “playing victim.” That’s called setting boundaries and asking for accountability.

Maybe Tamra should try it sometime.

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15 comments

Starr August 15, 2025 - 12:36 pm
Tamara Judge is sludge. She is a manipulative, conniving, back stabbing evil crow & the main reason I stopped watching OC. Dosent she realize that unless one deals with past horrid issues , it folds over into your present & is in your forecast for your future. Gretchen has every right to confront her on this, but Tamara devil is the eternal victim that victimizes.
Starr August 15, 2025 - 12:36 pm
Tamara Judge is sludge. She is a manipulative, conniving, back stabbing evil crow & the main reason I stopped watching OC. Dosent she realize that unless one deals with past horrid issues , it folds over into your present & is in your forecast for your future. Gretchen has every right to confront her on this, but Tamara devil is the eternal victim that victimizes.
book7175 August 15, 2025 - 7:40 am
Tammy Sue Waddle wants everyone to forget all the nasty crap she said and did to them and be friends. Life doesn't work that way.
book7175 August 15, 2025 - 7:40 am
Tammy Sue Waddle wants everyone to forget all the nasty crap she said and did to them and be friends. Life doesn't work that way.
Steve August 14, 2025 - 3:43 pm
It seems it is always the one with the worst behavior in the past who wants to turn the page and not talk about the past. Not surprised Tamra does not want to discuss what she did to Gretchen in the past. It would be too truthful about the type of person Tamra is.
michers August 14, 2025 - 11:05 am
Tamra is a whack a doodle .
Cin August 14, 2025 - 10:30 am
Anyone who befriends this woman becomes a victim .
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark August 14, 2025 - 2:15 pm
With out own eyes, we saw Tamra welcoming Gretchen at Katie's luncheon. It is Gretchen who is hellbent on keeping their feud going. For many years, Gretchen has had the benefit of watching the show as a fan, reading the blogs, and then reacting to Tamra based on that ... and that's exactly what's she's doing.
Zap It August 14, 2025 - 2:46 pm
But Tamra wasn't really welcoming Gretchen?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark August 14, 2025 - 6:09 pm
I'm watching a different show, the one where Tamra graciously said hello and tried to make light of their (pointless and stupid) squabble, but Gretchen needs a story line.
Zap It August 14, 2025 - 2:46 pm
But Tamra wasn't really welcoming Gretchen?
AnEnigmaWrappedInSnark August 14, 2025 - 2:15 pm
With out own eyes, we saw Tamra welcoming Gretchen at Katie's luncheon. It is Gretchen who is hellbent on keeping their feud going. For many years, Gretchen has had the benefit of watching the show as a fan, reading the blogs, and then reacting to Tamra based on that ... and that's exactly what's she's doing.
Zap It August 14, 2025 - 9:33 am
Tamara loves to victimize someone and then accuse them of playing victim. She has to find a new approach cause everyone has seen her strategy play out for too many years. ?
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