--- title: "Mia Thornton Breaks Up with Incognito And Reunites with Gordon: ‘New Year, New Beginnings’" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2025/01/06/mia-thornton-breaks-up-with-inco/ type: post date: 2025-01-06 modified: 2025-01-06 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2025/01/06/mia-thornton-breaks-up-with-inco.md author: "Roxanne" --- # Mia Thornton Breaks Up with Incognito And Reunites with Gordon: ‘New Year, New Beginnings’ ## Mia Thornton is ushering in 2025 with a significant shift in her personal life. The Real Housewives of Potomac star recently announced that she and her boyfriend, known as Incognito, have decided to part ways after dating for a year. The breakup comes as a surprise to many, especially given the couple's very public romance on social media and Mia's frequent praise of Incognito in her RHOP appearances. ![](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/image.png) [Mia Thornton](https://allabouttrh.com/2024/12/24/mia-thornton-gizelle-bryant/)confirmed the news to [PEOPLE,](https://people.com/rhop-mia-thornton-confirms-split-from-boyfriend-incognito-spends-nye-with-gordon-8767944)sharing that while she deeply cares for Incognito, her focus is now on her children and maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship with her ex-husband, Gordon Thornton. *"Inc is my best friend and perfect in so many ways, but I have decided to focus on my children and maintaining a healthy co-parenting relationship with their father," *she explained. ![Mia Thornton](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2025/01/image-1.png)Mia Thornton Breaks Up with Incognito And Reunites with Gordon: 'New Year, New Beginnings' The couple’s split became public after Mia Thornton posted a New Year’s Eve selfie with her ex-husband Gordon, leading fans to speculate about the status of her relationship with Incognito. In the caption, Mia shared her hopeful perspective on the year ahead, writing:* "NEW Year. New Beginnings. Cheers to living life to the fullest ? #momanddad #nye2025." *The image showed Mia and Gordon smiling together, which added to the curiosity surrounding their relationship. > [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/p/DEQGODfO7c-/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)[A post shared by Mia Thornton (@mrsmiathornton)](https://www.instagram.com/p/DEQGODfO7c-/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) Mia and Gordon, who share two children, 9-year-old Jeremiah and 7-year-old Juliana, separated in June 2023 after 11 years of marriage, though their divorce remains unresolved. Despite this, they have continued to co-parent and are clearly focused on keeping a united front for the sake of their kids. On her Instagram Story, Mia gave fans a glimpse into a quiet morning spent with Gordon and their children at a mountain-side restaurant, further signaling a cooperative approach to their post-divorce life. Mia and Incognito’s split is particularly shocking for *Real Housewives* viewers who have followed their love story on screen. Over the past season, Mia has been outspoken about her strong feelings for Incognito, even incorporating him into her tagline:* "Marriage can be temporary, but Inc is permanent." *Their connection appeared solid, and Mia often spoke about their future plans, including having more children together. Just last November, Mia told *The Daily Dish* that Incognito was eager to expand their family, with the couple discussing options like surrogacy and egg freezing. She revealed, *"We’re gonna take our time... but he wants me to carry. And he wants to have two more, so pray for me."* ### Are you surprised by the break up?