Vanderpump Rules Cast Turns on Ariana Madix for Not Filming With Tom Sandoval

Promo for season 11 of VPR

Ariana Madix‘s Vanderpump Rules co-stars turned on her for refusing to film with her ex-boyfriend Tom Sandoval during the season 11 finale.

On the Tuesday, May 7 episode of Vanderpump Rules, Ariana Madix remained steadfast in her decision not to film with ex Tom Sandoval during their cast trip to San Francisco.

Naturally, several members of the Vanderpump Rules cast took issue yet again with Ariana’s decision to keep her distance from Sandoval.

In the episode, one of Scheana Shay prior conversations with Sandoval forced Ariana to break the fourth wall after reaching her breaking point.

Scheana Shay defends herself over backlash from how she handled Scandoval.

Scheana told Sandoval that Ariana wanted an apology for how he “weaponized her mental health” in the weeks following his affair with Rachel “Raquel” Leviss. This statement resulted in Sandoval being determined to apologize to Ariana. However, the catch is that Ariana never actually wanted an apology nor did she ask for one.

So when Sandoval attempted to talk with Ariana on camera she left the event they were at altogether rather than engage with her ex.

After Sandoval’s failed attempt to converse with Ariana, the 38-year-old stormed over to production, telling them: “Him f—ing walking up on me talking to Scheana. He doesn’t give a f— if I died in a ditch, or got a f—ing deadly STD, the way he was f—ing around behind my back. That is non-informed consent. He does not deserve to speak to me. He does not get access to me.” 

Before leaving the event, Ariana explained, “It’s about a performance for the audience. He wants 30 seconds with the audience.”

Lala Kent takes issue with Ariana Madix walking away from Tom Sandoval during Vanderpump Rules season 11 finale.

“Whatever it is that Tom is trying to get for me, it’s not for me, it’s for him,” she continued in her confessional. “I am the final boss in his video game of redemption and because he can’t get to the final boss, he’s f—ing pissed.”

Instead of rallying around Ariana, several members of the Vanderpump Rules cast called her out for not being in a better mindset that would allow her to engage with Sandoval on camera while filming season 11.

Lala Kent specifically had enough of Ariana refusing to film with Sandoval, who also fired back at his ex’s claim that his remorse was “performative.”

“Ariana’s just going around saying that I’m not being honest, that I’m performative,” Sandoval said, later adding, “Ariana’s f—ing performative. She doesn’t like any of these motherf—ers. So she can f— off saying I’m performative.” 

Ariana Madix refuses to engage with Tom Sandoval in VPR finale episode

Sandoval then informed the group that Ariana “talks s—” about them which is when Lala lost her cool.

“This happened to her. The world rallied around her,” she said. “She now thinks she is Beyoncé. It’s bulls— that she can’t film with someone because she stays under the same roof. It’s a lot. It’s a lot that she’s saying don’t f— with Tom Sandoval… But, I’m gonna sleep down the hall from Tom Sandoval.” 

“I get it, he f—ing cheated,” Lala added. “You did a really f—ing s—y thing. It was weird how you looked us all in the eye and said a lot of s—. But, he did not kill somebody.” 

“I never in my life experienced someone who gets cheated on and suddenly she becomes God,” she concluded.

In her confessional, Lala elaborated on why she found Ariana leaving the party early to be “a slap in the face.”

“This is what we do,” she explained. “We’ve been doing this for most of our adult lives. We’ve all experienced high highs and low lows and there’s a responsibility that comes with living your life on camera. You have to be truthful, even when it’s extremely uncomfortable…”

Lala Kent and Scheana Shay question Ariana Madix’s ego post Scandoval in the Pump Rules season 11 trailer.

“I don’t feel that Tom and Ariana were ever honest about their relationship until Tom was caught cheating,” she continued. “And you think you get to be honest for one moment and then you get to pack it all away and all is good, f— that.”

Despite Lala’s criticism, Ariana doubled down on keeping her bounderies with Sandoval in place.

“We live these difficult parts of our lives on camera but if it’s something that actually really mattered to you regardless, you would do it anyways,” she shared in a confessional. “He’s never tried to talk to me off camera, he could have written something in a f—ing letter and left it on the kitchen counter and I could have read it at my leisure. But if you would only do it on camera, to me, you just showed your true colors.”

The Vanderpump Rules Season 11 three-part reunion kicks off Tuesday, May 14 at 8 p.m. ET/PT on Bravo.

Thoughts on this all? Have you enjoyed this season of VPR? Sound off below!

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21 comments

HousewifeVeteran May 12, 2024 - 1:34 pm
Ariana's anger is still raw because this season started filming only 3 months after the affair came to light. She has every right to be in a rage and not want him anywhere near her. She also shouldn't be telling people who they can be friends with, she's not god. Anyone who's a good friend of hers isn't going to be telling Sandoval what's going on in her life. All Sandoval's actions (after Ariana left the venue) did was confirm everything she was saying about him being performative. I'd like to see Lala, James & Scheana join The Valley, but I don't see any of the rest continuing with a spin-off. I'm sick of Mean Girl Katie, have been for years and I'm tired of both of the Toms. Ariana can go do her own thing. At this point I don't see Something About Her being around long, the restaurant business is too competitive for two owners who aren't around. Bravo stars don't draw many people for long when they're not on tv and the way the economy is nowadays, not many people can afford to pay for overpriced sandwiches and drinks, just because of a couple of D-list personalities, even in LA.
Teeje651 May 10, 2024 - 10:46 pm
I’m not Ariana’s biggest fan and she does annoy me, but I do think she made a very good point about Sandoval not trying off camera so now I am more understanding to why she didn’t want to interact or film with him and that’s her right. I will take back SOME of the shit I talked about her in earlier comments. When the Kristin and Jax scandal came about, at least Kristin was clearly remorseful and Jax was clearly honest about NOT being remorseful. Jax owned that he did it, and he owned the fact that he didn’t feel bad about it. I can respect his honesty even if I don’t respect his actions. What I really don’t like is Ariana forcing people to pick sides. Scheana should still be allowed to have a relationship with Sandoval and a good compromise for them could be that Scheana doesn’t invite Sandoval to the same events unless it’s a serious milestone event and she makes sure that Sandoval steers clear of Ariana to the point where she hardly notices him. Billie was also a good friend to Ariana and didn’t make excuses for Sandoval, but she had her own relationships with each of them and I’m sure she would’ve respected Ariana’s wishes to be kept at a distance from Sandoval. While Katie didn’t force people to pick sides between her and Schwartz, she did force people to pick sides between her and Lala during season 5 and that irritated me. Ariana completely disregarded that and still brought James and Lala around, which was ridiculous considering how disrespectful James was to Katie AND KRISTIN so I don’t know why Ariana is playing double standards on that. Ariana and Tom also didn't want people bringing Kristin around and made people choose between them and her during season 4 and demanded that Jax let James come on the Hawaii trip that they banned Kristin from going on. Stassi also made Katie choose between her and Scheana during season 3 and that was wrong as well. A lot of these people have genuine relationships outside of the show and independent of each other and they shouldn’t be forced to make sacrifices to satisfy some entitled asshole’s oversized ego, especially since the show is their livelihood.
Cin May 9, 2024 - 6:31 pm
Ariana..... what were you doing with Lala in the back seat while your Tom was driving. Please stop playing the victim. It no longer suits you. Most of the cast has cheated and cheated with their castmates. So bizarre that production is only paying attention to this affair. We are tired of it.
Copacop May 8, 2024 - 11:00 pm
Ariana is losing her vision... There is nothing remotely attractive about her future ex boyfriend...
PjC May 8, 2024 - 3:46 pm
VPR is dunzo. Graduate one or two cast to The Valley and no more seasons, no more growth to film. Tom is scum. Ariana is right and her "friends" forcing Tom redemption to happen is just self-serving performative. Ariana's success and home and career is hers to deal with and no one else. I wouldn't let that worm chase me out of my home, show or success. Productions villain-edit looks completely staged, like Scheana's singing career/unbelieveable. Bye LVP, no more to show here. Move on to The Valley. I would be interested to see one season of "Something About Her"--watch the opening and operations.
PjC May 9, 2024 - 1:54 am
I repeat move the cast (Scheana and Lala) with kids to The Valley. Cancel VPR. Do a season of the Toms actually running their businesses and give Katie and Ariana a side show too. See which ones get the ratings. My bets are on the women.
Steve May 8, 2024 - 4:20 pm
Ariana claims that Tom's actions are performative? Pot...meet kettle.
MissG68 May 8, 2024 - 11:06 pm
I agree! I am so over her outrage towards him and anyone that dares to be his friend or talk to him. People make mistakes, he made a HUGE one and hurt a lot of people, let's move on and stop the over the top theatrics. You don't have to forgive him or even be his friend but you and mean girl Katy can't control who else chooses to be his friend. Not a Tom S fan but I am sick of Katy and Ariana.
DS484 May 8, 2024 - 11:45 am
Andy said a few changes were going to be made on New Jersey, Tre and Melissa refusing to talk and he said that isn;t ok with Bravo. She wants TOM fired, but her life is going great with a new boyfriend, millions of dollars coming from what idiot Tom did to her. She should step down. This rage has gone on to much I can't watch it if it continues. She was caught in a lie last night saying she never told anyone she wouldn't be their friend if they were friends with TOM. To much
Andrea May 8, 2024 - 11:56 am
I think they both should go. Just like Tre and Melissa. I think jersey will be just fine without either. They either should end the show (VPR) or re-cast.
Andrea May 8, 2024 - 10:50 am
I truly believe that Ariana is allowed to have those boundaries after everything he's done to her. It blows my mind that no one understands that. Especially LaLa. No one was allowed to have any kind of relationship with Randall. LaLa is being a hypocrite. I can agree that she has some good points. Tom is 100% a narcissist and I feel like everyone is making excuses for him. He proved that at the end of the finale by saying, "I love it. It's good for me." Then the way he went off spewing things about Ariana shows he is absolutely not sorry and for none of these people to see that is crazy! I have dealt with a narcissist and will never again. That is a boundary for me and I am allowed to have that as is Ariana.
Zap It May 8, 2024 - 11:27 am
I think everyone should have boundaries too but they're on a reality show and Ariana has done the same thing to others. And she is making a lot of money off this. So really that's my point. But for those that have gone through something similar, I totally understand the Ariana support. It hit a nerve for a lot of people.
Andrea May 8, 2024 - 11:49 am
I wouldn't say it was quite the same thing. Also, what does it matter that she's making money off of it have to do with anything? So is he. More people were showing up to his concerts and thats money in his pocket. Money doesn't make up for the hurt you've caused someone. She is truly still hurt and it's obvious or she wouldn't be so angry. I hope she's getting some therapy and I hope he truly is trying to change but the ending of that episode shows that she was right and he's not and it's all a show.
Zap It May 8, 2024 - 12:21 pm
I just think the fame and money she's making wouldn't have come her way if this didn't happen and she doesn't want that to stop. But I see your point.
Andrea May 8, 2024 - 12:28 pm
Yes I agree for sure
HermanL22 May 8, 2024 - 2:56 pm
I'm with you 100%. They are all on a reality show. No one signs up to be cheated on, but it happens. She has profited GREATLY from this. She'd only be stupid to walk away now. And this statement is why I have such a hard time believing everything, quite honestly
DS484 May 8, 2024 - 11:45 am
Humm, Ariana sleeping with TOM when going with KRISTIN, Ariana jumping in the back seat with LALA to get it on while Tom was driving. CHEATING!!!! She is no saint she needs to get over it or leave the show. Didn't kill anyone, they weren't married. TOM has been getting his over a year now hope the idiot has learned a lesson.
Andrea May 8, 2024 - 11:53 am
Wow calm down. Lol who's Adriana??? Tom also loved that though. Just giving the opinion of someone who has seen and dealt with this type of person before. In the end all these people will be fine. Even Tom
DS484 May 8, 2024 - 12:02 pm
Yea, who is ADRIANA?
PjC May 9, 2024 - 1:47 am
Maybe, Andrea is referring how you misspelled Ariana's name in the previous Trailer story. . . twice (LOL). She just wants to never speak to Tom again (or him dead/not fired). Sometimes relationships part nicely and sometimes not a word. Is there a timeline or guideline to get over a ten year partnership? Reality TV has script on forgiveness that Ariana MUST follow. . .Seems really not so. Team Ariana. Tom is scum. Worm on.
Zap It May 8, 2024 - 9:24 am
Ariana doesn't want the rage to stop because that would mean her gravy train would stop dead in it's tracks. Get over it...you've done the same thing to other people on this show Miss Ariana.
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