--- title: "Bethenny Frankel Talks ‘Cold’ and ‘Suffocating’ Marriage to Jason Hoppy; Admits to Miscarriage Relief" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2024/04/18/bethenny-frankel-jason-hoppy-cold/ type: post date: 2024-04-18 modified: 2024-04-18 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2024/04/18/bethenny-frankel-jason-hoppy-cold.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Bethenny Frankel Talks ‘Cold’ and ‘Suffocating’ Marriage to Jason Hoppy; Admits to Miscarriage Relief ## Bethenny Frankel reveals shocking revelation about a miscarriage she experienced during “suffocating” marriage to ex Jason Hoppy. *Real Housewives of New York* alum [Bethenny Frankel](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-new-york/bethenny-frankel/) admits that she once told her ex-husband,[Jason Hoppy](https://allabouttrh.com/2013/02/08/bethenny-frankel-says-she-feels-good-and-terrible-jason-hoppy-livid-with-bethenny/), that she was ***“so incredibly relieved”*** when she suffered a miscarriage during their “suffocating” two year marriage. ***“In a constructive way, I said, ‘I’m kind of relieved … because I don’t think this is a healthy or positive relationship,' ***the Skinnygirl mogul [recalled on Tuesday’s episode of her “Just B Divorced” podcast](https://podcasts.apple.com/ro/podcast/part-two-a-power-struggle/id1652108126?i=1000652569867). ***“It was a nightmare that it happened,”*** she clarified. ***“[That was] my first step to saying something.”*** Bethenny Frankel claims that Hoppy called her a ***“real piece of s—t”*** in response before temporarily moving out of the marital home, which she called a ***“relief.”*** ![Bethenny Frankel and ex-husband Jason Hoppy at a basketball game in NYC.](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/05/Bethenny-Frankel-Jason-Hoppy-Call-It-Quits.jpg)Bethenny Frankel and ex-husband Jason Hoppy at a basketball game in NYC. This isn’t the first time Bethenny, who was already mother to her now 12-year-old daughter Bryn, addressed the pregnancy loss. In a [June 2012 Glamour essay](https://www.glamour.com/story/bethenny-frankel-im-ready-to-talk-about-my-miscarriage-glamour-july-2012), the RHONY alum admitted to experiencing ***“relief”*** at the time but not because of her rocky marriage to Hoppy. ***“There was, I have to admit, a bit of relief that I wouldn’t be starting my new TV job seven months pregnant,”*** she wrote at the time. ***“And then there was immense guilt at the relief.”*** Meanwhile, on Tuesday’s episode of her podcast, the former Bravoleb spilled some details about her sex life with Hoppy prior to the miscarriage. She claims that Hoppy compared their bed to a*** “block of ice”*** since Bethenny ***“didn’t want to have sex at all.”*** ***“I did not want to be intimate,” ***she explained, adding that her coldness was due to her lack of ***“respect”*** for the businessman. ***“I used to force myself, gag myself through doing it. … It is torture.”*** ![Bethenny and Jason marriage lasted less than two years. ](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2018/08/bethenny-jason.jpg)Bethenny and Jason marriage lasted two years. Bethenny and Jason tied the knot in March 2010. They announced their separation in December 2012 with Bethenny officially [filing for divorce](https://allabouttrh.com/2024/04/15/bethenny-frankel-ptsd-jason-hoppy/) a month later. Over the next decade the two battled it out in court over custody of Brynn and finances. They reached a financial settlement in 2016 but their divorce was not finalized until January 2021. By December of that year, Bethenny had gained full legal and physical custody of Brynn and was [no longer required to pay Jason child support](https://allabouttrh.com/2021/12/09/bethenny-frankel-no-longer-has-to-pay-child-support-to-ex-husband-jason-hoppy/). *[The Real Housewives of New York](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-new-york/)* will return to Bravo for season 15 in late to mid-2024. ## Thoughts on this all? Sound off in the comments!