--- title: "Southern Charm’s Olivia Flowers Admits to Hooking Up With T-Rav" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2024/01/13/southern-charm-olivia-t-rav/ type: post date: 2024-01-13 modified: 2024-03-13 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2024/01/13/southern-charm-olivia-t-rav.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Southern Charm’s Olivia Flowers Admits to Hooking Up With T-Rav ## Just when you think the complicated relationships on Southern Charm couldn't get any more incestuous, they do.  During part one of the *Southern Charm* [season 9](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/01/11/report-kathryn-dennis-demoted-for-season-9-of-southern-charm/) reunion, [Olivia Flowers](https://allabouttrh.com/category/southern-charm/olivia-flowers/) admits that she hooked up with [Thomas Ravenel](https://allabouttrh.com/category/southern-charm/thomas-ravenel/).  As longtime Bravo fans know, Thomas starred on *Southern Charm* from the show's premiere in 2014 until season 5 in 2018. The controversial Bravo star was fired from the show following his arrest for second-degree assault and battery against the former nanny of his children.  At the *[Southern Charm](https://allabouttrh.com/category/southern-charm/)* reunion, Olivia was arguing with best friend [Taylor Ann Green](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/03/09/southern-charm-austen-kroll-hooked-up-with-shep-roses-ex-girlfriend-taylor-ann-green/) about her hookup with Austen Kroll when Taylor blurted out that Olivia previously had a tryst with Thomas.  ![Southern Charm season 9 cast photo:Craig Conover, Austen Kroll, Shep Rose, Madison LeCroy, Venita Aspen, Olivia Flowers, Taylor Ann Green, Leva Bonaparte, Jarrett Thomas, Rodrigo Reyes, and Rod Razavi.](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/08/F2tAExtXUAUqfAU.jpeg)Southern Charm stars Craig Conover, Austen Kroll, Shep Rose, Madison LeCroy, Venita Aspen, Olivia Flowers, Taylor Ann Green, Leva Bonaparte, Jarrett Thomas, Rodrigo Reyes, and Rod Razavi. ***"Forgive as you want to be forgiven," ***Taylor cryptically told Olivia, which confused the rest of the *Southern Charm *cast and reunion host, [Andy Cohen](https://allabouttrh.com/category/wwhl/andy-cohen/).  Yet, Olivia knew exactly what Taylor was alluding to, so she told her estranged BFF, ***"Go ahead and say it. I already see what you're trying to do." *** ***"You've been hanging this over my head. I wanna see it. Say it. Say it,"*** she continued.  Andy interjected and pressed Taylor to reveal what she was implying. However, co-star [Craig Conover](https://allabouttrh.com/category/southern-charm/craig-conover/) beat her to the bunch, blurting out, ***"Well, just say it now. I mean, we're here." *** ***"The whole Thomas situation,"*** Taylor said with a smile before the camera panned to other members of the *Southern Charm *cast, who looked stunned.  ***"Thomas Ravenel?"*** Andy clarified.  ![Olivia Flowers admits to hookup with Thomas Ravenel during Southern Charm season 9 reunion.](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/southern-charm-olivia-flowers-thomas-ravenel-1200x829.png)Olivia Flowers admits to hookup with Thomas Ravenel during Southern Charm season 9 reunion. ***"Yeah," ***Olivia admitted.  She explained, ***"I was fresh out of college, 20 years old, dumb drunken night, one time, had a hookup with T-Rav, and I wanted to take [it] to my grave. Who wouldn't?"*** Olivia then circled back to the *Southern Charm* [season 8](https://allabouttrh.com/2022/05/17/southern-charm-season-8-trailer-craig-and-austen-get-into-physical-fight/) reunion when co-star [Madison LeCroy](https://allabouttrh.com/2018/07/10/southern-charm-austen-kroll-caught-cheating-on-camera/) first brought up gossip that the 31-year-old hooked up with Thomas, who is 30 years her senior. Thomas shares two children with ex-girlfriend [Kathryn Dennis](https://allabouttrh.com/category/southern-charm/kathryn-calhoun-dennis/), who is Olivia's close friend and former co-star.  At the time, Olivia denied the rumors she ever dated Thomas and instead insisted that they were just family friends. Taylor also had Olivia's back amid the gossip.  ***"Right afterward, I sat down with Taylor, and I said, 'I appreciate you taking up for me, but you should know something did happen, and she's the only person I told on earth about that, and here you are sitting now trying to use it against me," ***Olivia said at the season 9 reunion.  Andy was scratching his head about why Olivia needed to be ***"forgiven"*** for hooking up with Thomas over a decade ago.  ***"I mean, same situation,"*** Taylor replied. ***"Kathryn is a friend and a confidant, and you lied about it, so why didn't you go to Kathryn and say 'I'm sorry?'"*** Olivia fired back that she didn't even ***"know Kathryn then"*** and met her long ***"after it happened."*** ![Southern Charm](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2024/01/southern-charm-olivia-flowers-kathryn-dennis.png)Southern Charm's Olivia Flowers and Kathryn Dennis. ***"You told me it was five years ago after baby number two,"*** Taylor insisted.  When asked by Andy if Thomas was dating Kathryn at the time of their hookup, Olivia said she did ***"not believe so,"*** which led the *Watch What Happens Live* host to ask again why the hookup was such a ***"bad"*** thing at this point in time. ***"Because she's just been sitting there chomping at the bit to use it against me,"*** Olivia explained, directing her response at Taylor. ***"Not only have you proven yourself to be a s--t friend, you're a s--t human, too." *** Meanwhile, both Thomas and Kathyrn reacted to being dragged into the drama on the *Southern Charm* season 9 reunion. ***"The only time Southern Charm makes ratings is when I'm on the show, even in my absentia! When I quit the show, they canceled it for one season, looking for my replacement, and finally, it was in the aggregate with three new cast members!!"*** Thomas wrote. He added:*** "My point is I actually desire that I not be drawn into the show, and if they have to for ratings, they should end it. I have growing children, and I don't want to be pulled into a reunion show."*** While Thomas had an egotistical and nasty reaction to being mentioned at the reunion, Kathryn simply showed love and support for her friend Olivia. ***"We have never been closer. You did nothing wrong and don’t need to worry about being judged by me,"*** Kathryn wrote. > [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/p/C1_KP8qN7XE/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)[A post shared by Kathryn Dennis (@kathryndennis)](https://www.instagram.com/p/C1_KP8qN7XE/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) The final part of the *Southern Charm* reunion airs next Thursday at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo. ## Thoughts on this all? Sound off in the comments!