--- title: "RHOBH Recap: Kyle Fears Her Growing Divide with Mauricio As Dorit Expresses Concern Over Kyle’s New Lifestyle" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/11/16/rhobh-recap-hellevator/ type: post date: 2023-11-16 modified: 2023-11-16 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/11/16/rhobh-recap-hellevator.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # RHOBH Recap: Kyle Fears Her Growing Divide with Mauricio As Dorit Expresses Concern Over Kyle’s New Lifestyle ## While discussing monogamy and cheating on Wednesday's episode of RHOBH, the ladies question Kyle Richards' marriage and new lifestyle habits. [Dorit Kemsley](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/dorit-kemsley/) and the RHOBH are concerned that [Kyle Richards](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/kyle-richards/)' marital troubles with husband [Mauricio Umansky](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/11/14/mauricio-umansky-mystery-blonde/) have played a role in her extremely noticeable lifestyle changes. On [Wednesday's episode of RHOBH](https://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/watch/episodes), Dorit expressed concern for Kyle's exercise habits and her newfound sobriety. ***“You think that like this whole not drinking and distancing yourself for a minute was to try to protect yourself, get control because obviously, you've had the trauma of falling out with your sister [Kathy Hilton],”*** Dorit told Kyle during lunch in [Las Vegas](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/11/09/rhobh-recap-kyle-slams-f-king-b-h-sutton-over-las-vegas-meltdown/). ***“It’s traumatic.”*** ***“Maybe,”*** said Kyle. ***“I mean, I'm not a psychologist, but I don't know.”*** ***“I feel like I need to be really clear right now about everything,”*** Kyle elaborated. ![Dorit Kemsley and Hubby PK Address Rumors She’s Having an Affair With Kyle Richards’ Husband Mauricio Umansky; Call the Rumors Untrue and ‘Ridiculous’](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/09/KyleDoritRHBOBH.jpeg)RHOBH stars Dorit Kemsey and PK Kemsley pose for holiday photo with Kyle Richards and Mauricio Umansky Dorit noted that Kyle didn't have to*** "justify"*** her new lifestyle, but the mom of four quickly noted that Dorit wasn't the only one commenting. ***“I think Kyle's choice to not drink allowed her to have more control over everything,”*** Dorit said in her confessional interview, noting that she thinks Kyle currently needs ***"more control over everything."*** ***“When I tease and say, ‘Oh, Kyle, come on!’ It’s because we have seven years of history.  And when we go on trips like this, you know, you and I kind of let loose, and we'll do silly things and have fun, and I missed that,”*** Dorit told Kyle, to which the RHOBH OG replied: ***“But even that, before, I would’ve felt like, well I have to go drinks because everybody expects that from me to go out and have fun, or I would pretend and order a club soda and pretend there was vodka in it and I don’t even feel like I need to do that anymore. This is who I am. Just take it or leave it.”*** In their own confessional interview, [Sutton Stracke](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/sutton-stracke/) questioned if Kyle was going through a ***“mid-life crisis,” ***while [Garcelle Beauvais](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/garcelle-beauvais/) said she ***“misses the old Kyle.”*** Kyle revealed that she expected "more" from Mauricio this past year amid their marital problems. ***“I think a lot of it has to do with us having a harder year; I expected more from him for what I was going through,”*** Kyle told Dorit. ![RHOBH](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2022/06/IMG_0970-1200x800.jpg)RHOBH's Kyle Richards and Mauricio Umansky ***“Also probably, you know how he loves to go drink, and there’s a lot of business events where I’m supposed to go and be the wife and be supportive, and sometimes it’s like, I don’t wanna go to these parties,” ***she continued. The RHOBH OG also admitted that she's struggled to balance her sobriety with Mauricio's social lifestyle as the co-founder of his real estate firm, *The Agency*. ***“A big part of [his job] is putting yourself out there and being social, and I’m in a place where I don’t want to do that,”*** Kyle said. ***“I mean, I would much rather be home reading than going to an event, especially now that I don’t drink anymore.”*** When Dorit asked how [Kyle and Mauricio could “sustain a marriage”](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/11/08/rhobh-kyle-richards-mauricio-prenup/) while growing in different directions, the mom of four broke down in tears. *** “I would be happy to be full-time in the mountains, you know, like doing the things I like to do,”*** Kyle said. ***“I think with the way my relationship is right now, I’m not happy. I’m sort of now working on myself inside, and I feel like he’s very focused on his work, so I feel like, in that aspect, we’re kind of like, you know, growing in different directions.”*** Kyle added that she does ***“not want to wake up a few years down the road and be like, ‘Who are you? What are we supposed to talk about now?'”*** Elsewhere in Wednesday's episode of RHOBH, the cast headed to dinner, where Garcelle urged the ladies to play a question card game. ![RHOBH OG Kyle Richards gets shady on WWHL](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/10/Screen-Shot-2023-10-27-at-8.07.18-AM-1200x737.png)RHOBH OG Kyle Richards gets shady on WWHL [Crystal Minkoff](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/crystal-minkoff/) asked the ladies of RHOBH if they believed ***“monogamy is natural for humans.”*** ***“It’s difficult for some people to be monogamous,”*** Kyle said, noting that she thinks many people ***"suppress"*** their desires to be with others. Garcelle then asked the ***“married ladies”*** if they would forgive their spouses for admitting to ***“infidelity one time.”*** Kyle then confessed that she didn't know if she could keep her marriage going if Mauricio cheated. ***“We have dealt with so many rumors for so many years,”*** she said.*** “Who cheated? Someone cheated. Do I look like the type of person that would be like, ‘Ah, just don’t let me find out about it?’ No, I’m not.”*** As for Dorit, she said she'd ***"Lorena Bobbitt" ***her husband [Paul "PK" Kemsley](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/10/26/rhobh-dorit-pk-kemsley-deny-split/). *[The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-beverly-hills/)* airs on Wednesdays at 8 p.m. ET on Bravo.  ## Thoughts on this all? Sound off in the comments! 