--- title: "Amber Marchese Says Melissa Gorga Threatened to ‘Ruin’ Her and Claimed RHONJ Was ‘Her Show’" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/24/rhonj-amber-marchese-melissa-gorga/ type: post date: 2023-08-24 modified: 2023-08-23 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/24/rhonj-amber-marchese-melissa-gorga.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Amber Marchese Says Melissa Gorga Threatened to ‘Ruin’ Her and Claimed RHONJ Was ‘Her Show’ ## Amber Marchese opens up to the AllAboutTRH podcast about Melissa Gorga threatening to "ruin" her on RHONJ and claiming it was "her show." *[Real Housewives of New Jersey](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-new-jersey/)* alum [Amber Marchese](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-new-jersey/amber-corbino/) tells the *AllAboutTRH* podcast that [Melissa Gorga](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-new-jersey/melissa-gorga/) was less than friendly to her during season 6 of the show. ***"I feel like Melissa acted very supportive on the show of you when you came on. 'cause I feel like she was also kind of scared that you could possibly say something about her that she wouldn't want out there. Do you feel she was supportive? Like behind the scenes when, when you guys weren't filming?"*** [AllAboutTRH podcast](https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/amber-marchese-spills-the-tea/id1554996153?i=1000625185994) host Roxanne asked Amber. ![RHONJ stars Melissa and Joe Gorga pose for photo during vacation in Positano, Italy](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/IMG_8188-1200x603.jpg)RHONJ stars Melissa and Joe Gorga pose for a photo during vacation in Positano, Italy Amber's response may surprise you. According to the 46-year-old, Melissa threatened to ***"ruin"*** her if she did or said anything to make her look bad on RHONJ. ***"No, she told me that if I fuck with her, she's gonna ruin me. She said it was her show. She goes, this is my show. And, um, you know, you're lucky. You saw what happened to Jan [DeDolce]. I got her booted. I'll get you booted, too," ***[Amber alleged](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/23/rhonj-amber-marchese-suing-bravo/). ![RHONJ alum Amber Marchese details planned attack on her by production](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/09/RHONJ-8-3-14.jpg)RHONJ alum Amber Marchese details planned attack on her by production ***"I remember Jim going to Joe, 'Let's have a different approach. Let's just have some fun. Let's just redefine what this is. We don't have to be at odds.' Like, but no, they, wow. Let me tell you, they did not take it lightly that I was there. They did not like it. I was on her turf, their turf, and they were not gonna have it. They were gonna do everything in their power to make me look stupid, to embarrass my family. Even just like little snide comments that she'd make about my family.*** ***Like, as if she knew like my family. She didn't know my family. She was just very, very upset that I was there,"*** Amber continued. > [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwOWwuFxdRo/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)[A post shared by AllAboutTRH Podcast?? (@allabouttrhpodcast)](https://www.instagram.com/reel/CwOWwuFxdRo/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) Listen to Amber’s full interview with the *AllAboutTRH* podcast below! As always, stay glued to **[AllAboutTRH](https://allabouttrh.com/)** for the latest, greatest, and [most exclusive Real Housewives of New Jersey tea](https://allabouttrh.com/category/exclusives/) on the internet! RHONJ will return to Bravo for season 14 in 2024. ## Thoughts on this all? Share your thoughts below.