--- title: "Lenny Hochstein Slams ‘Selfish’ Lisa Hochstein For Playing the Victim" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/03/lenny-lisa-hochstein-selfish/ type: post date: 2023-08-03 modified: 2023-08-03 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/03/lenny-lisa-hochstein-selfish.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Lenny Hochstein Slams ‘Selfish’ Lisa Hochstein For Playing the Victim ## Lenny Hochstein dubs his estranged wife, Lisa Hochstein, "selfish" and a perpetual victim after she shades his recent engagement. The Miami-based plastic surgeon claims that he spent the last two years of his marriage to estranged wife Lisa Hochstein feeling*** "miserable"*** because of her ***"selfish"*** behavior. After [Lisa Hochstein](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-miami/lisa-hochstein-rhom/) shaded [Lenny's engagement to Katharina Mazepa](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/08/03/lisa-hochstein-lenny-hochstein-rhom/), Lenny came out swinging against the *[Real Housewives of Miami](https://allabouttrh.com/category/the-real-housewives-of-miami/) *star for her comments. According to Lenny, Lisa Hochstein is a ***"selfish, self-centered"*** person ***"who cares about nothing [but] herself."*** He also accuses Lisa of continuing a ***"false victim narrative" ***to gain sympathy from the public. ![Lisa Hochstein Congratulates Husband On Engagement To Mistress & Responds To Lenny](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/07/Lisa-Hochstein.jpg)Lisa Hochstein Congratulates Husband On Engagement To Mistress & Responds To Lenny's Mother Shading Her It's important to note that Lenny and Lisa are still legally married. Their divorce has yet to be finalized. ***“I want to clear up some things. For two years prior to telling Lisa I wanted a divorce, my life was miserable. I was treated like a servant, not a partner,”*** Lenny told [ ](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/lenny-hochstein-slams-ex-lisa-hochsteins-false-victim-narrative/)*[Us Weekly](https://www.usmagazine.com/celebrity-news/news/lenny-hochstein-slams-ex-lisa-hochsteins-false-victim-narrative/) *on Wednesday. ***“I was nothing more than an ATM machine to her, funding her party lifestyle and her constant need for more material things,”*** he added. Lenny claims that he begged Lisa Hochstein for a divorce ***"numerous"*** times over the last two years of their marriage. ***“She didn’t care. We [hadn’t had] a husband-wife relationship since 2021. And in 2022, we were living in separate bedrooms,”*** he said. ![Lisa Hochstein and Lenny Hochstein bitter divorce takes a toll](https://allabouttrh.com/wp-content/uploads/2023/05/Lisa-Hochstein-1200x1200.webp)Lisa Hochstein and Lenny Hochstein ***“I told [Lisa] that we were going to get divorced and that I was going to start seeing other people. I’m tired of Lisa’s false victim narrative,” ***he continued. ***“She’s no victim. She’s a selfish, self-centered person who cares about nothing past herself. Not me, not the children. Absolutely nothing.”*** Over the weekend, [Lenny became engaged to his mistress](https://allabouttrh.com/2023/07/30/lisa-hochstein-congratulates-husban/)-turned-girlfriend of a year, model Katharina Mazepa, during a trip to Ibiza. Lenny reportedly proposed with an engagement ring valued at $1 million. > [View this post on Instagram](https://www.instagram.com/p/CvTLlrbPAr0/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading)[A post shared by All About TRH (@allabouttrh)](https://www.instagram.com/p/CvTLlrbPAr0/?utm_source=ig_embed&utm_campaign=loading) RHOM is expected to return to Bravo in late 2023 or early 2024. ## Thoughts on Lenny's comments? Who do you believe - Lenny or Lisa? Sound off below!