--- title: "Erika Jayne Encourages Men to Slide Into her DMs Amid Divorce Plus Praises Dorit Kemsley’s Strength Following Home Invasion" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2021/11/11/erika-jayne-encourages-men-to-slide-into-her-dms-amid-divorce-plus-praises-dorit-kemsleys-strength-following-home-invasion/ type: post date: 2021-11-11 modified: 2021-11-11 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2021/11/11/erika-jayne-encourages-men-to-slide-into-her-dms-amid-divorce-plus-praises-dorit-kemsleys-strength-following-home-invasion.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Erika Jayne Encourages Men to Slide Into her DMs Amid Divorce Plus Praises Dorit Kemsley’s Strength Following Home Invasion Erika Jayne's DMs are open! *The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills* star revealed in a new interview with *[Extra](https://extratv.com/2021/11/10/rhobh-star-erika-jayne-says-life-is-good-and-turning-in-a-positive-direction/)* that her direct messages are open for men to slide into. Former RHOBH star Teddi Mellencamp, who was working as a special correspondent for *Extra*, asked Erika what *"dudes"* should know about her dating life. *“Slide into my DMs and you’ll find out,”* Erika quipped. The Pretty Mess singer has made it clear she's ready and willing to start dating amid her divorce from her estranged husband, Tom Girardi. [TMZ](https://www.tmz.com/2021/10/29/erika-jayne-dating-new-boyfriend-tom-girardi-divorce/) reported last month that Erika is *“already been on a handful of dates with different men.”* And apparently, Erika knows exactly what she's looking for in a new partner telling* TMZ*, *“I think every girl, you know, likes a guy with money.”* However, she insisted she wasn't dating anyone, in particular, saying, *“Not a soul. I’m dating myself. I’m never not dating.”* As for how life is going following season 12 of RHOBH, Erika said, *“Life is good. Everything is turning a positive direction.”* She added, *“It feels so good to have the season over… and just be on a much lighter path.”* Erika also weighed in on co-star Dorit Kemsley’s horrific home invasion that took place on October 27. *“I’m shocked at her strength and how she’s continued to show up,”* Erika said. *“We know each other really well as a friend group, and to see one of us really just go through that kind of trauma really is heartbreaking.”* RHOBH will return to Bravo for season 12 in 2022. ## Thoughts on this all? Sound off below! **[Follow](https://www.instagram.com/allabouttrh) **AllAboutTRH On **[Instagram.](https://www.instagram.com/AllAboutTRH)** **[Follow](https://www.twitter.com/allabouttrh) **AllAboutTRH On **[Twitter.](https://www.twitter.com/allabouttrh)****[Like](https://www.facebook.com/allabouttrh)** AllAboutTRH On **[Facebook.](https://www.facebook.com/allabouttrh)**