--- title: "Kary Brittingham Talks Friendship Struggles With D’Andra Simmons; Says They Don’t Have A Genuine Friendship Anymore and Thinks D’Andra Just Wants a ‘Superficial Friendship’" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2021/04/12/kary-brittingham-talks-friendship-struggles-with-dandra-simmons-says-they-dont-have-a-genuine-friendship-anymore-and-thinks-dandra-just-wants-a-superficial-friendship/ type: post date: 2021-04-12 modified: 2021-04-11 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2021/04/12/kary-brittingham-talks-friendship-struggles-with-dandra-simmons-says-they-dont-have-a-genuine-friendship-anymore-and-thinks-dandra-just-wants-a-superficial-friendship.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Kary Brittingham Talks Friendship Struggles With D’Andra Simmons; Says They Don’t Have A Genuine Friendship Anymore and Thinks D’Andra Just Wants a ‘Superficial Friendship’ Fake friendship? Check. Season 5 has brought a bevy of friendship issues for Kary Brittingham, including a major fallout with longtime pal D'Andra Simmons. In a new interview with [Entertainment Tonight](https://www.etonline.com/rhods-kary-brittingham-talks-viewer-backlash-and-friendship-struggles-with-tiffany-and-dandra), Kary claims that she believes she and D'Andra no longer have a genuine friendship. She notes that she's fine with having a *"superficial friendship"* if that's what D'Andra wants. *"I hope we can really move past that and hopefully be good friends, but two people have to want it, have to work at it," *she says. *"Friendships and close relationships are not easy."* D'Andra has previously said that Kary expects too much from her when it comes to their friendship. *"She's told that to me before,"* Kary admits. *"I'm like, OK, then it makes sense. I don't want to feel like you have to call me; you should want to call me. If you have to put a reminder in your phone to call me, that means you have no interest in talking to me."* *"It doesn’t matter, the phone call,"* she notes. *"It matters the engagement and the phone call, and ... it feels like, OK, check. I called Kary. Check. I ask her, how are you doing? How's your family doing? Check. That's not it; it's not a genuine, heartfelt friendship. I don't care if you call me once -- I mean, I have friends that I talk to once a year, and it felt like we just saw each other yesterday. It's the commitment to the friendship."* RHOD airs Tuesdays at 9 pm EST on Bravo. ## Thoughts on this all? Do you think Kary and D'Andra have an authentic friendship? **[Follow](https://www.instagram.com/allabouttrh) **AllAboutTRH On **[Instagram.](https://www.instagram.com/AllAboutTRH)** **[Follow](https://www.twitter.com/allabouttrh) **AllAboutTRH On **[Twitter.](https://www.twitter.com/allabouttrh)****[Like](https://www.facebook.com/allabouttrh)** AllAboutTRH On **[Facebook.](https://www.facebook.com/allabouttrh)**