--- title: "Is Tamra Judge A Changed Woman?; Wishes Gretchen Rossi Well Instead Of Lashing Out At Her" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2015/09/29/is-tamra-judge-a-changed-woman-wishes-gretchen-rossi-well-instead-of-lashing-out-at-her/ type: post date: 2015-09-29 modified: 2015-09-29 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2015/09/29/is-tamra-judge-a-changed-woman-wishes-gretchen-rossi-well-instead-of-lashing-out-at-her.md author: "Lara Sophia" --- # Is Tamra Judge A Changed Woman?; Wishes Gretchen Rossi Well Instead Of Lashing Out At Her [![Real Housewives of Orange County - Season 8](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/NUP_152234_0509-450x300.jpg)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/03/NUP_152234_0509.jpg) Hello Tamra, are you in there? It seems that Tamra Judge may be a changed woman after finding God. Unlike previous incidents, Tamra remained calm and kind after recently coming under attack by one of her former RHOC co-stars. Last week Tamra's former frenemy, Gretchen Rossi called her a *"monster mom,"* saying Tamra was getting a big dose of *"karma"* after calling *"Slade Smiley a deadbeat dad."* Knowing Tamra and her history many assumed Gretchen's comments about Tamra as a mother would set off WWIII. Instead, the new and improved Tamra stayed kind, offering well wishes to Gretchen even after getting the opportunity to take a swipe at her former co-star. After a fan tweeted Tamra saying, *"@TamraBarney How does @GretchenRossi explain refusing to marry Slade since no network is willing to foot the bill and air it. Oops."* [![Screen Shot 2015-09-28 at 9.40.57 PM](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.57-PM-480x58.png)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.57-PM.png) Instead of fighting back at Gretchen, Tamra took the high road saying, *"@MissAmiaSays let's just wish her well and hope she finds her happiness in life. "* [![Screen Shot 2015-09-28 at 9.40.50 PM](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.50-PM-480x63.png)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.50-PM.png) When previously asked by fans about her thoughts on Gretchen's comments, Tamra again kept calm, making it clear she could care less what Gretchen had to say. Tamra tweeted, *"@rebeccaSimko I did. But I don't care. Im in a better place with true friends like @ShannonBeador."* In another tweet Tamra wished Gretchen happiness, *"@HellOnHEELS lets just pray she finds her happiness one day."* [![Screen Shot 2015-09-28 at 9.40.18 PM](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.18-PM-480x156.png)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.40.18-PM.png) [![Screen Shot 2015-09-28 at 9.39.58 PM](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.39.58-PM-480x138.png)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2015/09/Screen-Shot-2015-09-28-at-9.39.58-PM.png) Do Tamra's tweets prove she's a changed woman? Are you shocked Tamra didn't lash out at Gretchen over comments about her parenting? Follow AllAboutTRH On Instagram** [Here](https://www.instagram.com/rox.jajo)** *Follow Us On Twitter [Here](https://www.twitter.com/allabouttrh)And Like Us On Facebook **[Here](https://www.facebook.com/allabouttrh)***