--- title: "Gretchen Rossi Fighting With Slade Over What They’ll Do First, Baby Or Wedding!" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/09/21/gretchen-rossi-fighting-with-slade-over-what-theyll-do-first-baby-or-wedding/ type: post date: 2013-09-21 modified: 2013-09-21 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/09/21/gretchen-rossi-fighting-with-slade-over-what-theyll-do-first-baby-or-wedding.md author: "Roxanne" --- # Gretchen Rossi Fighting With Slade Over What They’ll Do First, Baby Or Wedding! [![GretchenRossi](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/GretchenRossi.jpg)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/09/GretchenRossi.jpg) **Real Housewives of Orange County** star Gretchen Rossi popped the question to her boyfriend Slade and they are now engaged, but that doesn't mean there is a wedding on the horizon! Gretchen is revealing that she and Slade have been "fighting" about what to do first - have a child or have a wedding! Gretchen [tells](https://www.celebuzz.com/2013-09-17/gretchen-rossi-may-put-wedding-on-hold-for-baby/) Celebuzz at Macy's Passport Presents Glamorama show, *"We've been a little bit fighting. I want a baby, he wants the wedding."* *"We're negotiating. He's very traditional and I used to be. Not anymore!"* reveals Gretchen. *"I think it's sweet and romantic, and he wants to get married before. I just don't want to be super old having my baby, so I/m more focused on that."* Gretchen then says she's "content" not having a baby right now. So which is it?! Looks like this couple doesn't know what they want. Dragging the "dilemma" on for a storyline, maybe?