--- title: "Heather Dubrow Says She Is Not Competing With Gretchen Rossi And Confirms She Was Lying About Acting Gig!" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/07/02/heather-dubrow-says-she-is-not-competing-with-gretchen-rossi-and-confirms-she-was-lying-about-acting-gig/ type: post date: 2013-07-02 modified: 2013-07-02 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/07/02/heather-dubrow-says-she-is-not-competing-with-gretchen-rossi-and-confirms-she-was-lying-about-acting-gig.md author: "Roxanne" --- # Heather Dubrow Says She Is Not Competing With Gretchen Rossi And Confirms She Was Lying About Acting Gig! ![Screen Shot 2013-07-02 at 11.42.58 AM](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/07/Screen-Shot-2013-07-02-at-11.42.58-AM.png) Real Housewives of Orange County star Heather Dubrow wants you to know one thing and that is that she is not competing with Gretchen Rossi! Heather took to her[blog](https://www.bravotv.com)to discuss all the drama that happened on Monday's episode and says that despite what Gretchen says she was not offered an acting role! > "I can't believe it's already July 4th week! I have been enjoying amazing time with my family and friends so far this summer. (Follow me on Instagram @heatherdubrow to see pictures! ) Hope you all are having a fantastic summer too! > > On to the show. . . > > Tamra and Eddie: So hard to open a new business! It must have been very frustrating for them to be so behind schedule. Thankfully, they are now in full swing and doing SO well! I wish I lived closer -- the few classes I've taken there were amazing! Check out CUT fitness if you live nearby! > > Tamra and I have a running joke about our stomachs! So funny. It cracked me up to watch Tamra explain it to Eddie! It's a good reminder to always stand up straight AND always have your friends back (or stomach as the case may be!). > > So exciting to be offered another guest star role less than a month after my appearance on Hot in Cleveland! Terry was so supportive, helpful and great -- just like the old days. So nice that the balance is back in our marriage and in our lives. > > Speaking of balance, what I said on the show is true. In this one tiny moment I have it all. Obviously it won't always be that way. . .So I'm glad that I can appreciate this period of time and enjoy it! > > In the limo. . .It was nice to see everyone excited for Tamra's big day of wedding dress shopping! I was bummed I couldn't drive with them, but I had the table read for Malibu Country and I didn't want to pull focus from Tamra's day -- so I decided to wait until later to share my news. > > Dress shopping was SO fun! Who doesn't love to see their friend try on wedding dresses?!? Plus, they served chocolate and champs! What could be bad??? > > Tamra looked insane in every dress. Her figure looked incredible! For the record, I said "INNER CORSET"!!! Oy! > > Drama amongst the dresses...Why does everyone feel the need to keep asking questions about Brooks? Vicki is visibly upset. This is the time to shut this conversation down. > > Also, Lauri looks like she waiting for her moment to start trashing Brooks. Vicki just said they broke up -- why does she need to know this? Is Lauri saying these things just to hurt her? Because I don't see any other reason. And why today ?!? At wedding dress shopping??? Unnecessary and inappropriate. > > Malibu Country. . . I was so excited to tell the girls about getting offered a guest starring role on Malibu Country. > I didn't originally intend to tell the girls what I had learned about Gretchen. However, when Tamra asked me, I told her what happened. > > If you are wondering why I chose to share this information, I was annoyed on Tamra's behalf. There is a difference between discussing an incident that happened among friends and spreading idle gossip that you are a third party to and whose only purpose is meant to offend. > > I said to the group "They called to check availability for Gretchen and a few other girls for a small walk on role. Gretchen was never 'offered' anything and that small part ended up getting written out of the show. The role I was offered was entirely different." > > I only asked the casting director about Gretchen because I was excited for her. She wanted to get into this business and I thought maybe we would be working together. Let this be said. I am not a competitive person -- I truly believe there is room for everyone. I don't however condone using getting "offered a role" as a way of having Tamra disinvite Alexis to dress shopping. Calling to check one's availability for a few lines on sitcom and being offered a guest starring role are two different things. Also, if there was a tangible opportunity for Gretchen to do a network sitcom, which I don't believe she has done before, she wouldn't turn it down. Nor would Tamra want her to. She wasn't offered a role. Period. > > Until next week. . ." Heather makes some good points. It's crazy to think how the tables have turned and how everyone seems to now have a problem with Gretchen. Thoughts on what Heather had to say?