--- title: "Alexis Bellino Clarifies Missing Gretchen, Talks Not Attending The Malibu Trip!" url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/05/14/alexis-bellino-clarifies-missing-gretchen-talks-not-attending-the-malibu-trip/ type: post date: 2013-05-14 modified: 2013-05-14 markdown_url: https://allabouttrh.com/2013/05/14/alexis-bellino-clarifies-missing-gretchen-talks-not-attending-the-malibu-trip.md author: "Roxanne" --- # Alexis Bellino Clarifies Missing Gretchen, Talks Not Attending The Malibu Trip! [![AlexisBlog](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/AlexisBlog.png)](https://allabouttrh.wpengine.com/wp-content/uploads/2013/05/AlexisBlog.png) Alexis Bellino continued to be excluded from group activities on this week's **Real Housewives of Orange County**. Tamra lead the group to Malibu for some wine tasting fun and obviously Alexis and Jim were not invited. Alexis and Jim instead opened a trampoline park, which Alexis reveals she would rather be at than Malibu. Also in this episode, Lydia told Gretchen that Alexis missed her, so Alexis takes to her [Bravo blog](https://www.bravotv.com/the-real-housewives-of-orange-county/season-8/blogs/alexis-bellino/i-dont-miss-gretchen?page=0,0) to clarify this. It turns out that Lydia must have misunderstood what Alexis really said. Check it out! > I have never been wine tasting in Malibu, so I loved watching the girls' trip. Shockingly enough, the trip seemed pretty harmless (aside from the single name-calling incident). I do feel that there is one thing we can guarantee about Vicki, and that is that she is a HARD WORKER, so I truly doubt there is any way that she is slacking with Wines by Wives. > > Lydia saying to Gretchen that I missed her needs clarification. I am not "missing" Gretchen because the current Gretchen is not the same person I was friends with three years ago. I do miss the old Gretchen, but not the person that I know and see now. What I had mentioned to Lydia is that Gretchen's behavior towards me hurt the most, because at one point we really were friends. I've never had a close connection to Tamra or Heather. > > I feel really bad for Heather and Terry. Marriages have ups and downs and it seems theirs is in a bit of a rut right now. I hope they are able to work through this rough patch. It will be interesting to see where their relationship goes this year. > > The grand opening for Sky Zone San Diego was incredible! It was packed all day and I couldn't be more proud of my husband. Although Malibu looked fun, I would not have wished to be anywhere but at Sky Zone that day. I love hearing all the kids (and adults too) laughing, screaming, jumping, and flipping. This is such a rewarding business to be a part of. Do **you** think Alexis and Gretchen would ever be friends again? If invited, would Alexis have gone to Malibu, do you think?